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xxjust.another.dayxx
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I like a boy

he liked me a few years ago
then he told me he hated me
he hasnt talked to me in 3 years
then a few months ago he started talking to me again
and now its like im invisible
i really want to talk to him because i like him alot
but i have like this problem with talking to guys i like
i like say
im going to talk to him
no im not
yes i am
no im not
then by the time i make up my mind hes gone!!
this happened to me tonight and im like
WTF???
so someone i need some advice

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pinkfreak6 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

If he told you he hated you and he has been ignoring you then I really don’t think it’s worth it and I think you can do better but if you do want to try and talk to him then just go for it. If you’re afraid of rejection or it doesn’t go the way you thought, at least you know you tried instead of wondering what could have happened if you did. You know? And if he does reject you then you know you deserve better.

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Help me with: say you met someone in december and you spent the entire night holding him in your arms, kissing him under the blankets.
Bobberdee offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (32 minutes after post)

I would definitely just look for a different guy. There’s plenty of em. It kinda sux, really. lol, but if u uber like him I think u should pass him a note in class or something. Contact him online. It’d be way easier than going straight up to him.

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Help me with: Soo..I was supposed to do an experiment for sociology, but I flaked.
Critqq offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Ajaccio, A5, FR | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

If he started talking to you again how is it that your are invisible?

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