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HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND, BUT WE REALLY LIKE EACH OTHER, i dont understand help!

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okay, so i really really like this guy at my school.
i started liking him before i found out he had a GIRLFRIEND!
even though they say thier just “**** buddies” they are still “TOGEATHER” to me.
it rrly hurts to see pictures of them togeather ect.
but, im just trying to get to the point.
okay so i found that he liked me.
it all started on a friday…
he said”lets go in the elevator”
and i was like Shuree :P
his friends gathered around us while we were waiting..
and they kept smiling and cameron and i..
i thought they were ganna come in with us
but when the elevator opened they left fastly..
i was like okkkaayy
>_>
then he grabbed muh hand and pulled me in the elevator
we laughed a bit for no reason
than he slid right next to me..
and i gave him a look lol and turned me face away b/c i was blushing rrly bad ^-^=
i felt his face get closer and then i felt his lips press gently against my cheek
my face was like WWWHHHAAT 0_0? lol then he smiled and our lips met. it was heaven.
:)
when the door opened we steped out and i said “this never happened” ;)
lol he replied “yes indeed it didnt:)”
and after my class he walked with me he said he was getting checked out. so we talked a bit by my class door untill the bell for 4th block rang.
his friends can and talk and stuff than the bell rang:( and i was sad.
his friends departed.
and he gave me a long hug and i could hear our hearts beating frantically.
he started walking off and i was like “wait!”"i have to tell you something”
he had a crooked smile he said” what?”
I ran up to him till we were face to face.
i cuped my hands around my lips like i was gannah share some secret..
he leaned into my trap:D
and i switched from his ear fastly onto his cheek and ran off giggling
i could hear him behind me say “that was adorable”

lol that will be the day ill forever hold in my heart ^-^

see thats a problem i realize i have whenever im with him i forget he has a girlfriend.
uuuuuuhhhh its frustrating me! & he keeps kissing me. & i keep falling in deeper for him!
ive tried hinting to him to break up with her if he wants to be with me.
im too shy to come out and say “BREAK UP WITH YOUR GF”
ive even told him i wasnt going to kiss him anymore….that didnt end well.
WHAT do i do?
does he really like me?
why dont he break up with her?
is he just using me?

Additional Details;

OKAI HE TOLD ME HE’D BE STUPID TO FALL IN LOVE WITH HER &
HE SAID SHE JUST USES HIM BUT, HED LIKE TO BE LOVED & LOVE SOMONE

his friends also tell me that his gf is a very bad influence on him and that hes changed scince he got with her.
hes gf is also 19 and he is 16 im 15

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rawrrawrfearm offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

plz help me

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1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

Whenever it comes down to it, I typically disregard all other relationships when my own is in question; not that that’s a good thing, as it hasn’t helped me get anywhere but not hurt. I’m guessing that he probably shares a much more mature bond with this other girl that will exceed high school; not that that’s a good thing, either- but he may be subconsciously looking for a much different relationship than it would appear he wants with you or anyone.

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soc0ut offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

Yea, explain how they’re not really together, but they are.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 64 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 1 month ago (50 minutes after post)

I think if he’s cheating on his gf with you he will do that with other girls, too. I wouldn’t get involved with him.

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okei! offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 110 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

So long post, i don’t understand either
But feelings should be clear
Be with her or without her, but with you
Black and white

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soc0ut offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

[quote okei!]so long post, i don’t understand either/quote]
Okei!, it was kind of a cute post..

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okei! offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 110 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 50 minutes after post)

soc0ut wrote:
[quote okei!]so long post, i don’t understand either/quote]
Okei!, it was kind of a cute post.. :-)

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okei! offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 110 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 51 minutes after post)

for a teenager i guess
but no longer a teenager
:p
:p

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soc0ut offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

Oh, come on really?!?!?!? Her whole secret/kiss trick was adorable!!

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okei! offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 110 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 58 minutes after post)

soc0ut wrote:
Oh, come on really?!?!?!? Her whole secret/kiss trick was adorable!!

yah now i read it, lol
well. it is cute. but they are both teenagers, so i suppose
it is cute, when u are on that stage. cause i am no longer one :p
well, i guess, she has to clear it with him.
who she is in his life. is there something between them. etc, etc.
but you know, that might scare him. the commitment etc thing.
so why not enjoy the moment, and see how long will it last.
who knows, if it is fate, it must be
:p
:p

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*country girl* offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 hours, 17 minutes after post)

talk with him
sure his friends might think his gf is a bad influence but if they think you are a better choice then why do they let him continue going out with her. also if he cheats on her then there is a possibility that he will cheat on you. becareful cause it sounds like he might be playing with you. if he likes you enough to kiss you then he should def have ended things with his gf.

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muñeca mascarada offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 week after post)

I wish i could help you:( i have the same problem:( im so desperate.and nobody can understand me. if you want to talk to me ill add you on msn or you can. im so exhausted..

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babybob16 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 weeks, 6 days after post)

what if she cant face him i have the same issue and it was easy for me to kiss him it was a peck on the lips and i will do better as we grow closer but for now just kiss him on the lips like u would on the cheek

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hottchiicck offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (7 months after post)

lol you are crazy!!! why do guys keep making out when he has a ******* gf!! OBVIOUSLY he is just playing with you, i would just forget about the *******, otherwise you will end up getting hurt. :(

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muñeca mascarada offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (7 months after post)

I don’t know… I told I had tha same problem. And now we are together . He loves me. And it was worth to wait. We are together and we are so happy.

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mini-marshmallo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (9 months after post)

i hade the same too, apart from that we both liked eachother, he told my sis thinkin it was me on my account he wanna go out with me she sed no he got upset, i had no idea, athen he got a girlfriend, and i told him it was her n he likes me again, n dont actually like her just trina be happy wiythout me ( 3) and now its all a mess. hunni, its life

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funkyfairy12 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 months, 1 week after post)

oh my god same problem. but his “girlfried” lives miles away and he never texts her and says he doesn’t really like her. and im wish i coud just say dump her thne! but u cant, i totally understand but its hardest for me because ive really fallen for him and everytime he kisses me i fall harder! if u want to chat i have msn.

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