friends help: i really like my best friend and he likes me but he has a gf. - Help.com

oh my goodness
he told his gf?
i think that you need to talk to him about it
if he likes you enough hed dump his gf..

yes…a guy that dumps a girl to be with you…what happens when another girl comes along?

true dat

Don’t believe him unless he broke up with his gf
No two-timer pls.

okei! is right..

As someone who has been in a similar situation as your friend, he needs to resolve his issues with his current GF -first-. If he is happy, if they have a future, etc. You should tell him to try to work things out with his GF before anything else. If he really cares about you, his decision will be easy. Don’t let him pull you into anything in the immediate future. He needs to be sure of his decision, and you need to be sure of him.

This happened to me when I was in high school. It didn’t end well for me. His girlfriend started hating me because she saw me as a threat and he stopped hanging out with me, because even though if he WASN’T with her he would have been with me, he WAS with her, which meant that he liked her more and was more loyal to her(among other things). I lost my best friend at the time and 8 years later I still wish things hadn’t happened that way. Just be careful what you do! You’ll have to deal with whatever happens.
One of my favorite quotes: “Be careful what you wish for, not because you’ll get it, but because you’re doomed not to want it once you do.”

blondie13pch wrote:
he barely gets 2 c his gf. she goes to a diff school… i dont no if i should tell him that i like him 2. its just i dont want him 2 brake up with his gf 4 me. should i tell him or not?

To be safe, avoid the mess before you get caught in a trap. Go out with guys whom you know are single. Then you are free and great possibility that they’d like you back.