Love help: theres this girl i like but she doesnt like me back. - Help.com

First…why do you need to apologize after class for such a random thing? You know that one song - Its too late to ‘polagiiizzee…its too laaaaaaate…

ok this is what you do…if you can’t talk, use nonverbal cues.

when u pass her in the hallway, you say “hi (insert name)” and maintain eye contact. Then she’ll probably say hi back. If she doesn’t start talking just keep walking. Don’t keep this too long though (or if you are already somewhat friends) or it will be awkward.

when sitting across in class or similar situation - LOOK at her casually, in the eyes. If she catches you looking and makes eye contact, DO NOT NERVOUSLY LOOK AWAY. Wait 1-2 seconds, then give a small wave, or a (not nervous) smile, or some other sign of recognition. If she nervously looks away before you wave, thats perfectly alright. When SHE breaks eye contact, stop staring. If she doesn’t, well then congratulations, you are staring at each other from across the room.

At every opportunity, lightly touch her arm/shoulder. Do it casually, while talking, while handing her something, etc. While standing/walking next to her let your sides brush.

Say SOMETHING. It doesn’t matter what. She isn’t goddess, so don’t stand silently in awe of her! Talk, nake fun of her, whatever you would do to your friends. And, while your talking, keep up with the casual touching, although you can just be normal in eye contact now.

Give this same kind of attention to other girls, just give her slightly more. Attracting other girls lets her know your worth something, and also makes YOU less obsessed with her, which is a good thing.

i kinda have the same problem, i really REALLY like this girl and she knows i like her and she thinks its sweet but she doesnt like me back, she is my friend and isnt mean so im not worried about heartache, i just feel ****** because i really like her, and i want to be with her.

but there isnt anything i can do, so im trying to move on.
lol its hard.

i wish i could help i love this girl who ive know for 3 yrs and i always liked hershe found out like 6 months ago but she was suspecting that ever since i met her . ive never gone out with anyone at all and she knows that she knows that i adore her and hurts me everyday by flirting with my friends giving everysingle person a hug but not me and making fun of me small things like that i know im not ugly im ok looking i guess and she flirts with me every once in a great while .for instance on holloween i dressed up in normal clothes as did she but i wore my favorite clothes my best ones she did my make up and stuff and started flirting with me she put my hand on her boob every 5 min. or so and she was trying to make this other girl jealus by laying me on my back on the bed and standing over me just a bunch of stuff that she knew turned me on .then the next day i was hoping she would be nice to me again because shes usually a ***** to me but she just acted like it never happend.

I just dont know what to do i love her so much i dont want to because i see her flirting with people all the time (especcialy my best friend )
should i keep liking her ? or just give up …..
she one of my only friends and she knows that

i like this girl and im freinds with her but she dosent like me what shod i do?

just dont go up to her and ask her if she like u just b youreself and make eye contect with her and dont stok her just lugh at eve joke she sayes aboult u and try flirting with her

yeah… i have the same prob. cept, she’s kinda half and half (not that way)
what ya need to do is wait on april fools day. when it is, tell her, Ahem, “will you go out with me?” if yes, ur hooked up. if no, screw that then, find someone else.