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I need to get someone’s advice.

My ex and I broke up about 4 months ago, I was angry and broke up with him but didn’t mean it. We work together and about 3 weeks after he and I broke up he started dating this other woman at the dealership. He also realized that he had a drinking problem and has quit. He kept coming to me and telling me that he loves me and we tried to work things out but he was playing both sides of the fence so to speak for about 2 months. So I finally lost it and told him to go F off. That made him realize that he wants to be with me so now we are trying to repair our relationship once again. He has completely left this other woman. My problem is that I don’t know now if things can be repair. First off I do drink, but don’t have a problem. Second, this other woman got to be around his kids and ex-wife. And he says he give that to me. Third He let her practically live there and and I never could keep anything there. My mind is going in so many different directions that I just don’t know what to think or do? Any sugestions? By the way he and I had been together 3 1/2 years before any of this.

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silver_rose offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Hamano, 08, JP | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

sometime people lose something then he relise that u were the one he really love

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skies offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Potomac, MD, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

I guess my problem is that I won’t be allowed to have a relationship with his kids or ex-wife. Won’t be able to kept things at his house. I never cared before but now that he allow this woman to do what I couldn’t am I fooling myself if I think I will be able to handle that?

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Hamano, 08, JP | 1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

sometime it puppy love i think that maybe he should move on and he should hope for the better it not u who is wornd it him he worng fot bring her back to him like i mean that was the ex mean not together anymore like that in the past.but i do this maybe u should tell him to move on and tell him to move forword and backwors u know

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