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My best friend meghan has blown me off twice in two weekends for this girl that she hated for the longest time.

She apologized the first time and i was still mad. And i am extreamly mad now. We had plans from last night to sunday to hang out because we were going to go to a fair. now i txted her and said “whats the deal? do wee have plans or not?” and she txted me back after like a half an hour and said “dunno.” with a period. whenever she uses punctuatuion she doesnt want to talk to me. Do i have the right to be mad at her for blowing me off twice or dont i? cause im still really pissed off so i made plans with someone else for toonight so i dont have to wait for another answer. she will be probably be mad at me. But at this point i dont care. Should i be mad or not??????????

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Wannabe. offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

I don’t think you should be mad at her yet. Maybe she has a valid reason. Of course, she may not have a valid reason- so talk to her about how you feel, don’t show it.

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munchkimb offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

but this is like the second time. and the first reason was “oh **** i forgot” and okayy. im only making plans because ive waited 5 hours for a response.

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Karoline.ponc offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

Well i dont know how you reacted to her blowing you off. I’m guessing that you might not have been the nicest because you were hurt and upset. but i think that yea you do have the right to be a little angry about the fact that she blew you off twice and you should talk to her. maybe go out tonight to let each other cool off then give her a call to talk about it tomorrow.

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munchkimb offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

i actually didnt say anything to her. and i would like to cool off b4 i talk to her. and waht should i say if i talk to her? she’d say your over reacting. its nothing. and then think i was being stupid.

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Hi_Sai offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (44 minutes after post)

You totally have a right to be mad at her!!! She’s blowing you off and for what? Some b**** she never liked before now?

Obviously she’s making it clear to you WHO is her priority.

She clearly doesn’t want to put enough effort into keeping you as her friend so YOU ditch HER. She doesn’t deserve you. Go find a friend who actually cares. Because you’re worth it.

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