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Ok I told her Need your opinions on how it sounded.
Well ill fill you in on the story first. I have been having problems with my bestfriend. I recently moved to another state with my b/f and she came later by herself. We became really close since then. Well she has this crappy bf that she is with then isn’t and it changes every week or day sometimes. He is a jerk and treats her like crap she even admits that he is mentally abusive to her. I am always trying to go out of my way to give her really good advice and boost her self esteem so she can be happy. Yet everytime he comes out here or she goes home she suddenly stops talking to me and ignores me. And im sick of it. It makes me feel as if she is only my friend because she is lonely or doesnt have anyone else. I just dont feel like she is being sincere i guess. Well since she came back I havent talked to her because Ive been pretty upset about how shes been. Then she suddenly writes me and email saying I want 18 dollars you owe me and this and that and etc. I thought it was crappy she couldnt even ask why I hadnt been talking to her. Well theres more to it but I dont feel like getting into it. So here is what I wrote back. I would love to hear your honest opinions if I was to mean or not. I like to know so I can learn how to handle things more appropriately.
“Yea well to be honest I’m sick of how u are every time you go home or Preston(her boyfriend) is here you suddenly stop calling or talking to me. And I’m sick of it. I’m a really good friend to you and you acting like that as soon as you get around him is ********. Date who you want but dont be a bad friend in doing so. To be honest it makes me think that your only friends with me when you have no one else but as soon as you got him or have anyone else our friendship doesnt mean anything to you. And thats ********! I know when Im with Jeff (my boyfriend) or any of my other friends I still try to have you around! I dont just have you as a temporary friend untill I have something better. And as far as the money I dont even know what I owe you for. But it sounds kinda bitchy when you lay it out like that. That all you care about is getting what is yours. And if you wanna be like that then ill do it too. You still owe me money for that camera and seriously i cant even think of how many times Ive bought beer or made dinner for you or how about gas money for Jeff taking you to the airport or even when we would go play video games and i would let you use all my tokens. Sounds kinda childish when i lay it out like that now dont it? But I NEVER say hey you need pay me back because Ive learned that friendships should always come before money and if you make it to where its always about it then someone is gonna get tired of the other person being cheap. And when are you at school cuz maybe you can give me my stuff and ill give yours back.”
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