how do you find the right friends ?
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well the best way is to find out who it’s easiest for you to talk to. just start talking to them and if you are able to hold a conversation then that’s good.
In order to find a friend don’t go looking for one. Be one.
I agree with southern_comfort. Just be a good friend to whoever you are hanging out with. They have to be able to support you though, and not tell all your secrets.
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Find out what KIND of friendship you want first - then you can go out and find the right kind of friends to develop the relationship you want.
i want stability friends i could have fun with. nice people, who keep my secrets. what kind of friens would this be?
i always end up thinking that i care more about my friends than the other way around. This makes me insecure.
i am a good friend but at times i wonder if i get too involved, and keep away . I think that my problem.
The best way to make really good friends is trying to be yourself - don’t go out on a limb just to find friends, because they won’t be the right ones for you because they’ll be the right ones for the confident, over-friendly person you’re pretending to be. Just do what you normally do, and people who like that will come along :)
And don’t care about thinking you care more for your friends then they do - it’s not always equally sided, and if you’re not meant to be then you’ll find time will just slowly make you more distant in favor of better ones :).
I cant keep my friends what do you think I am doing wrong? And all of my close friends go and tell my secrets. What should I do?
You’re not neccessarily doing anything wrong, they just might not be the friends that are right for you. Try not to tell them secrets, if avoidable, and try and spend more time with new people. I’m not saying completely acoid seeing your friends, but try and get a back-up.
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