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We all try our best and sometimes our best is not good enough. But, what if we were all to give up? What good would that do?

just hang in there, life is a trial… don’t give up! trust me a year from now it will all be better. go seek help at a hospital… you will be glad you did. at this point you have no where to go but up!

A year from now will be no different than the last 20 yrs

I’m sory to hear your struggling. We will be your friends and always give a listening ear :)

Hon we’re all pinching those pennies,your not alone on that one. I take it your agoraphobic ?
You sound lonely and depressed, try to hang in there, this wont last and maybe you can get back on your feet. You need to get some counseling for your agoraphobia if thats what it is to.
That way you can start to live your life. )))))hugs.

Things are hard now for you but pls do not give up. I don’t know where you are so i don’t know the laws. Can you ask for financial aid from local government?

One user here has a story in his profile about a man who went to bridge to jump down, on his way down he realized everything in his life could be fixed, except the fact he just jumped down…

people change, life changes. There are so many options and opportunities in life sometimes we are just blinded and overcome with dark thoughts. Sometimes i wonder how much changed in my life in years and unsolvable problems seem distant and unbelievable. See you Petrik

http://www.healthcentral.com/depressi… check out this link. There is no need for you to continue to be sad and unhappy. At least look it over. You will find many helpful tips on being fulfilled and happy again. You deserve to be happy and productive. *HUGS*

Things can only get better, that’s what people tell me and they really truly do! It’s so hard to get through the harder times in our lives but the rewards are endless! I promise you that things can get better. It’s a matter of believing hope exists. You’ve made it this far, keep up the fight. Tap into the strength you know you have and look at what you do have to be grateful for. Money can’t buy a smile and a hug from a true and caring friend…isn’t that what really matters in this life?

hi i’m very sorry i got to this so late, but i am 14 yrs old and only have a mom, my dad died last year, my 28 yr old brother lives with us and doesnt help out very much, although he DOES help, but we are always living pay check to pay check, and being a teenager just starting highschool there are many things i want. i have screwed up a lot in life, and there is nothing i can do about. but please, have faith, and it’ll all be ok. right now, there is barely anything to eat in my house, my friends and i keep having falling outs, and its just not a good time. but i am trying my best to live for God now, and you know what? i’m happy now. if you met me about 2 or 3 months ago, i was a depressed suicidale 14 yr old girl ruled by hormones just trying to find a guy to love her, and simply unhappy with everything, i had NO self confidence (somthing i am still working on, being as i dont think i am pretty, and get made fun of daily) no smiles or laughs ever came from me, and after several suicide attempts i started to listen to my youth pastor, and i am here to testify and spread Gods word months later. now i laugh and smile all the time, i actually look at where i’m going instead of my feet when i walk, and i’m just so happy now. even though nothing is going right. if i can deal with this at my age, well, i’ve got so faith that you can too! i’m always here if you ever need to talk about anything. (email removed) email me if you need to. just do NOT give up. if your not happy, pray for it. and i am not the only one on here who wants to listen and help. we love you!

Have faith when you expect the least something will happen to change your life for good have faith.

I know what your all saying, these are the things I tell people and Ive been telling myself and you know what? it works for some but not for me. Like i said’20yrs’, the same old ,same old, day after day, year after year. Im done living in a fantasy world. I’ve been blessed beyond belief except for financially. How am I suppose to keep tell others to hang on, things will turn round when I know it may not happen for them either? you dont have to answer this, frankly this post is just a waste of your time as i see it

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I know what your all saying, these are the things I tell people and Ive been telling myself and you know what? it works for some but not for me. Like i said’20yrs’, the same old ,same old, day after day, year after year. Im done living in a fantasy world. I’ve been blessed beyond belief except for financially. How am I suppose to keep tell others to hang on, things will turn round when I know it may not happen for them either? you dont have to answer this, frankly this post is just a waste of your time as i see it

Life is a b****! It challenges us all, some sooner than later. For some reason I would live forever just to spite em all:)!

If the only reason is financial and money can’t buy you happiness and love I have to wonder if that is really the reason. You need to search out in yourself what it is that has you so down. You can, you know yourself well enough. Dig a bit deeper, you’ll find it. You won’t give up, you have too many people who care for you and who you care about. It’s not always easy being the rock for everyone else, why don’t you ask your family to show you the love that you need right now?

miss, my first response is yes, its financial but thanks, you made me see the real problem. I recently met someone who gave me the impression i wouldnt have to go through life alone anymore doing everything on my own and all my hopes seem all gone. LOng story but basicly that seems to be all gone and im back to square one, alone. I have God, thank god.lol but I have strong needs I didnt know i had before they came along. Before i was perfectly content , now i cant go back, ive changed. Im so disappointed. And I say ’seems’ because I have no closure, the relationship ended abruptly and is still in the air, im left wondering and worrying. As for family, ha ha, the only real family i have is here. I have my kids but they are not helpful or stable at all, they are much better but no. And besides I shouldnt lean on my children, children are suppose to lean on their parents when needed not the other way around. And they cant fill my needs, not any i have. They dont even understand what im going through, its foreign to them.

You’ll find both the lesson and the positive in this, that I’m quite sure of. Take the time to grieve those hopes that were crushed and then start looking for ways to fill yourself back up with that love and contentedness that you had before. It’s awful to be let down but it will make you stronger and you know all that anyway. You just need to get passed the disappointment. It takes time. ;)

miss, your right but i still think everything stems from not having a car.(ive written posts on the subject b4) Im independent except in this area and its making more and more bitter. the struggles i have to endure because of this put me in tears , makes me mad and makes me want to not go anywhere which the last thing i want to do is resort back to isolation( he offered his car to use and I was a recluse all my life). I know theres nothing anyone can do , its up to me to figure out how to get a car, maintain and keep it-again but just dont know how with the little income i have. maybe ill sell the little bit i have and live in my car, i see no other solution.My daughter is losing her car and wont even consider us working together to try and keep it, not that she gives me many rides anyway but..just thoughts i need to get out, no need to reply

Oh dear dear… I knew it was you when this post first came out but didn’t reply for fear of sounding like a recorded message that I believe I already imposed upon you once before.

Ok, let’s get practical then. So you don’t have a car. I know what that’s like. I’m very much isolated myself as it is, living in the country with no means of transportation. My boyfriend has his but is gone all week working…

I’m thinking of looking into sharing rides with people who do have a car in exchange for a few dollars. I don’t know how it’s called in English but their are website here in Canada anyways, where you can hook up with people to help each other out in this way. I don’t know if there is such a thing where you live but maybe you should look into it. Or perhaps put an add in the classifieds and see what you can come up with. It might also be a nice way to meet new people. Some might think it risky but you can always have a chat on the phone with them first and see if you’re comfortable or not.

Anyways, I’m thinking of doing that myself. I’ll let you know how it goes. If I get any other ideas, I’ll get back to you. xx :)

Thank you everyone, this post made me realize how much i need support. I only wish and pray that someday i’ll have a even a fraction of support in my real life. Im going to look into a support group locally, God knows I need to be needed and so many people need help. And if G shows up it will be icing on the cake. BIG Thanks again . {{HUGS}}