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my friend killed herself because she thought she was ugly!

before u judge any one on the way they look!! please think!!

sometimes i think looks is all people care about!!

i dunno!! i feel sooo down.

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go_the_distanc offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 minute after post)

its ok to feel down… and yesa looks are what a person “sees” first because you cant see kindness or fun or any kind of personality…. if we saw those the world would be a better place!

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r12starie12 offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (24 minutes after post)

I am really sorry about your friend :(

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[Gone]2511 offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (33 minutes after post)

I know how you feel…

Don’t blame yourself for it…there wasn’t anything you could do..

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (37 minutes after post)

It happens, the important thing is to make sure that you remember the lessons that her departure brought you. I’m sorry for your loss.

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The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 38 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (51 minutes after post)

What a tragedy. She was not in her right mind, of course. You will grieve over her, and that’s OK.

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angel♥ offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (56 minutes after post)

im so sorry about your friend =( thas so sad.
but i agree.. people make all these “little” comments about others that they tihnk mean nothing.. but it could mean a lot more to that person if theyre self concious about it.

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angel♥ offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (57 minutes after post)

i just thought of something.. a few words could end a life but a simple smile could save one.

Vyki offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (58 minutes after post)

αиgєl♥ wrote:
i just thought of something.. a few words could end a life but a simple smile could save one.

not a bad motto to live with

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angel♥ offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (59 minutes after post)

thanks!

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Luton, I1, GB | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

*hugs*

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Chickens offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

Thats… terrible… Why do people care so much about their looks? All i care about on me is my hair…

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Joa offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

We’re animals

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Chickens offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Joa wrote:
We’re animals

I strongly agree, strangely…

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Animal i have become offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Joa wrote:
We’re animals

so true

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angel♥ offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

★Chick★ens★ wrote:

Joa wrote:
We’re animals
I strongly agree, strangely…

same here.

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[Gone]2511 offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

αиgєl♥ wrote:

★Chick★ens★ wrote:
Joa wrote:
We’re animals
I strongly agree, strangely…

same here.

Animal with use of reason, which makes us even more dangerous..

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Chickens offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

2511 wrote:

αиgєl♥ wrote:
★Chick★ens★ wrote:
Joa wrote:
We’re animals
I strongly agree, strangely…
same here.
Animal with use of reason, which makes us even more dangerous..

Most people don’t even use reason… or the right type of reason…

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[Gone]2511 offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

★Chick★ens★ wrote:

2511 wrote:
αиgєl♥ wrote:
★Chick★ens★ wrote:
Joa wrote:
We’re animals
I strongly agree, strangely…
same here.
Animal with use of reason, which makes us even more dangerous..
Most people don’t even use reason… or the right type of reason…

They use it, but in a wicked way…

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Joa offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

2511 wrote:

★Chick★ens★ wrote:
2511 wrote:
αиgєl♥ wrote:
★Chick★ens★ wrote:
Joa wrote:
We’re animals
I strongly agree, strangely…
same here.
Animal with use of reason, which makes us even more dangerous..
Most people don’t even use reason… or the right type of reason…
They use it, but in a wicked way…

and self-centered

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Chickens offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

Most people focus on two things nowadays… Vanity and Wealth…

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[Gone]2511 offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

mmm…
Wealth is the main…although I don’t see focusing on that as something bad, what I think it’s bad is the way to approach the subject…

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Chickens offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

Like a person who would hurt or kill someone else to get to vast wealth… Hmmm..

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[Gone]2511 offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

Yep…

Or simply do things without thinking of the consequences in shorts or longs periods of time (ahem, global warming)

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last_breath offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (2 hours, 33 minutes after post)

I am sorry for your loss hun…
It’s hard with all the media flashing emaciated women all the time and saying that it is beautiful…
People rely on the media for the “right” way to look…
Alot of people out there are so self-indulgent that they don’t care who they hurt…
Again…
I a msorry for your loss…
Please don’t follow her.
Take care and stay safe…
~Alicia~

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (1 year, 3 months after post)

Oh! That is sad! And i think no1 should look on the ouside, but on the inside!
The inside is all that really matters!!!
I’m sorry about that.

last_breath wrote:
I am sorry for your loss hun…
It’s hard with all the media flashing emaciated women all the time and saying that it is beautiful…
People rely on the media for the “right” way to look…
Alot of people out there are so self-indulgent that they don’t care who they hurt…
Again…
I a msorry for your loss…
Please don’t follow her.
Take care and stay safe…
~Alicia~

Yes,
This might be a lesson for you, friends, family, and all of us hearing of this!
I am sorry, though looks lik this was about a year ago…Hope your doing gud
God Bless You

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