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help, please help.

i can’t concentrate on schoolwork or even talk to people or do anything without getting frustrated and crying and then i slash at my arm and people ignore it

my best friend of ten years hasnt talked to me in months

everyone just assumes i’m getting help

i want to run away, but i have nowhere to go

******* hell, i can’t even explain it without being so cliche

but honestly

as i write this i cant stop wailing, i am so upset

and i feel everyone has given up on me

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mr guy man offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

Have you tried making new friends?
Do you sleep much?
also you can be tested for depression and adhd and they will get you to talk to people who can provide medication that will help you with concentration

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

What has been happening with you that your so out of control? I want to help if I can. Is there a reason your friend doesn’t speak to you anymore. How can these people think your ok if your still cutting? Why are you so sad?

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

Lily, Can you tell us? We all want to help you :D

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Winter Rose edited this post 1 year, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

help, please help. i can’t concentrate on schoolwork or even talk to people or do anything without getting frustrated and crying and then i slash at my arm and people ignore it

my best friend of ten years hasnt talked to me in months

everyone just assumes i’m getting help

i want to run away, but i have nowhere to go

fuckkkking hell, i can’t even explain it without being so cliche

but honestly

as i write this i cant stop wailing, i am so upset

and i feel everyone has given up on me

Winter Rose offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

This is very similar to my feeling. I must go to bed, but I know these people, and they can help.

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angel♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

do your parents know about any of this? cause you SHOULD get proffessional help!

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Snar offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 minutes after post)

We havent given up on you lily :) we are here for you. Why is it that you get so frustrated with things? Do you know? Maybe you should look into meeting with your counseller, doing some pyschological introspection…and just discovering and dealing with the root of your anxiety.

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (26 minutes after post)

Honey,first of all CALM DOWn.wipe those tears and listen to us. although it feels or seems like people have given up, they havent. they dont know how to handle it thats all, they feel helpless so it just LOOKS like it. Especially the cutting, even doctors are having a hard time trying to figure out what to do about it. Im sure if you talked about your problems more it will help you. here, in a journal, anyone that you trust.Keep talking until you get the help you need

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chunkymove offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

Hey Lily,

How you feeling now? you in a better place yet?

There are some kind and trust worthy people here on this post who would like to help you.

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molotok offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 Add Friend #
Gävle, 03, SE | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Writing a personal journal has helped a lot of people in your situation. Try that, and then pick bits and pieces of whatever thoughts you have, and talk to us about them.
Then you get another perspective on some of the stuff. It is also not bad for us to listen and talk about it, because new thoughts and ideas may be brought up.
So while you possibly may get some comfort and help, I wouldn’t be surprised if you help other people as well!

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