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Okay life utterly sucks for me.

No girlfriend. out of school. out of jobs. wtf is this life and why is it so hard!

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angel♥ 11 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

im sorry! but life is always hard, but you get past these things. before you know it youll find a girl and a job! you just need to keep being patient!

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myanonymous 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

Because it’s life. Think outside the box. Leave the status quo. Think of what your good at and what you like and embrace it, and do everything you can do make it your career. There’s always good to balance out the bad.

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tikoramo 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (22 minutes after post)

things are always worse before they get better

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Doveplus 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (28 minutes after post)

“No girlfriend. out of school. out of jobs.”

You’re in the same boat as a lot of people. You just have to tough it out and never give up.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (34 minutes after post)

it will change. be patient.

find humor.

the word utterly — is magnificent.

souxchef300 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (37 minutes after post)

I’m in the same situation you are. How old are you? I turned 28 monday and I had to move back in with my parents.

Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (39 minutes after post)

souxchef300 wrote:
I’m in the same situation you are. How old are you? I turned 28 monday and I had to move back in with my parents.

oh man… cheers to being 28 (i will be 29 in dec.) and living with your parent(s).

lol

yea, its not the greatest… but i am grateful to have a mom that rocks.

souxchef300 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (40 minutes after post)

I trying to stay positive. Its really hard though. Life is tough. But I’ve made the choice to focus on positive things. I know how hard it can be, but if you dwell negatives, that’s not going to help you get a job, or a girlfriend.

souxchef300 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (42 minutes after post)

But it still stinks though, I know where you’re coming from.

mumstheword 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 hours, 1 minute after post)

try turning your thougts into positive ones:

“no girlfriend” … “young, free and single again”

“out of school”… “no homework, no deadlines and ready to explore the world”

“out of jobs”… “no boss on my tail for a while”

Of course, it’s no fun being in your situation. I’m not saying it is. But thinking positively can help you to stay focused and prevent depression from setting in. When you are able to act positively, it’s amazing how suddenly all the girls and employers notice you above others in the same boat…

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