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Well I don’t know how to start out this Post.

But I will try. When my husband, son & I got back from over sea. (He was in the USNavy). We lived with his sister. (He & my son still live there). I feel so deep in love with him. We will be married for 10 years in Nov. 08. A month later we left to do stuff. She was cleaning her house and found my Daddy’s ashes in her house. When we got back to her house she said” I don’t want your dad’s ashes in my house”! I can’t remember what I said then. She said that he should be in the f***** ground! He f***** dead”! I said “So is Erica”! (Her daughter). I was not thinking at that time. I just said it. I wish that I did not say it. She said ” I want you out of my f***** how by the time I get back from work I don’t want you in my f***** house no more! You f***** *****”! Then 2 hours later he said “We are done”. Then my husband took me to my Mother’s house 3 1/2 hours away. On the way up there I asked him “What did I do”? I begged him “I can change. I can be a better Wife & Mother. I want to be with you”. Then a week later my mother kicked me out as well. She was afarid of loosing her aptment. It is in her lease that no one can stay no more than a week in her aptment. I went to stay at the Salavation Army for 11 days. Then I had to leave. I stayed at Value Place Hotel for a week. I saw my son before I had to leave there. On the last day of my stay I went to take back my husband wireless for his computer. We talked for 3 hours before I had to leave to my Daddy’s house (That I am buying from my sister). I cryed for 3 hours in his arms. He said “You just stop carring about youself”. I asked “How is that so”? He said “your clothes don’t match at all. You argue with our son & I to much. I was looking for a divorce since we was in Mississippi on line. I just could not tell you then I was looking for one. I just stayend init till I could not handle it no more”. I begged him, Please don’t do this! I love you to deeply! I can change! Please give me a 2nd chance”. I cryed for 3 hours in his arms. The I left to go to my Daddy’s house. 5 1/2 hours away from my son and husband. It is not livable at all. The sewer pipes are not working. Has not work for 2 years before my Daddy passw away in Jan. 08 and now it almost been 3 years since it had not work. I can’t take a shower or use the toliet. I had to take 2 showers at a truck stop for $5.00 each. I also used the bathroom at my neighbors house. Also they let me take a showers there. I stayed there for 5 days like this. I can’t live like my Daddy did. How did he take a shower and use the restroom? So I asked my Mother again if I can come back after I told her what is going on down here. She said “yes you can”. I will have a place in about 2-3 weeks in a town close to my family. Just an hour away from them. I also have a nervise stomach for a month now. I had it when I was a kid. I was diagnose with one when I was verry little. When my Mother and Daddy got a divorce it flaired up then. Now it is doing the same thing. I can’t live with out them. I want him to reconsider the divorce. I can’t eat or Sleep hardly for a month. I told him tis also. Mabe if I just let him think about it he will come around. Or mabe when he gets a place it will be differnt with out his sister telling him what to do. I think that was a perfect timing for him to tell me this. I think that he listen to his sister. But I could be wrong. Please help me on what to do.

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