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the world according to crazy.
A little over a week ago, a friend from college who I have not seen nor heard from in 10 years, shows up on my door step and professes her love of me. She is beautiful and very attractive, and in college, I never thought I had a chance to be with her, so I never took the chance. She graduated with her degree in the Fall and I graduate in the Spring. We knew each other because we had the same schedule due to upper classes in our degree. I was in a relationship, that is now my marriage, and she is currently married. Before i got married, had there been an interest that would have blossomed, I would have terminated my relationship back then, and pursued a much more equally determined relationship. However, I chalked up my interest as mere infatuation with the unattainable, filed the memories in the the part of the mind you use for fuel, to tell yourself, that never again will anything be unattainable, and plowed forward. I went on, got married, fought on to get my doctorate degree, and I’m running my practice, i have a son and one son due in no time at all. my wife and separate a couple of years ago, due to her being cruel to me, and things she would say, one of which was that she wasn’t sure whether she loved me anymore.
After almost of year of separation, we returned to married life, and a happy accident occurred resulting in a very near future visit from the stork. The problem I’m having is very strange, or stupid, but I in a dilemma, I have a wife that has reverted back to lack of love for me, I am more of a meal ticket and security blanket, and a woman that I myself have always considered to be unattainable, and used as a driving force as to why I’m now somewhat successful, who is professing her overwhelming desire to be with me. She is also currently married, to a man she claims ignores her on all levels. My infatuation confronts my reality completely out of blue. Suggestions? I don’t judge, so don’t judge me. serious help needed
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