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I love some one more than anything else in this world..

But i have been cheating on him due to which i am not ale to look myself in the mirror. whenever i see in the mirror i see his innocent face.
Is there a way to punish myself?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

You dont love him if you cheated on him.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

Also, if you want to punish yourself break up with him and do him good because I would never want to be with a cheating/lying BEEEEPPP so do him good and let him go…

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vegetabletarian offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

does he know that you have been cheating on him?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

Tell him…the situation should be solved like that, from my point of view…

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (18 minutes after post)

Yeah you’re punishment is to tell him

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (23 minutes after post)

Confess or you burn in” ” you know where…

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~Grace~ offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (27 minutes after post)

EmilyRI wrote:
Yeah you’re punishment is to tell him

Indeed. Then take a long, hard look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself: with how you just treated him, why you should deserve to be with him if you’re going to treat him like that.

That’s not love. Like the first Anon reply said, if you cheated on him, you don’t love him. That’s just an excuse to soften the blow of the deed you’ve done. Face up to it, and realize you did wrong. Love had nothing to do with it.

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kitt e offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

I really couldn’t imagine doing that to my b/f. I could never ever ever hurt him like that.

You have to talk to him about this. Fess up.

So here’s my question: What kind of love are you talking about??

And did you have a reason for doing this?

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jeosmall offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 hours, 53 minutes after post)

loserrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr how would u feel if he did not same to you let him **** your friend out front of you then u will feel free

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BANCHEE offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Sudbury, ON, CA | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 11 minutes after post)

If you really did/do love him more than the world you would never hurt him or even consider it.You need to rethink why you did this and no you dont love him,you just found that out.

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 hours, 58 minutes after post)

punishment will not solve the problem, confess to God ,ask for forgiveness , forgive yourself and dont do it again.

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kokox3koko_mugi-ta offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

I’ve an situation like that, but I’ve seen that he was not what he supposed to be, I was hurt for a thing that I’ve did, and he was not anything of what I quote. You should break with him. :D

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