girl help: i just asked out a girl who is already going out with a guy who i didnt know about. - Help.com

Any other girls you fancy?

go by yourslef
i did this year
i still had fun
my mom drove me there and everything like a dork
but i found guys and people to dance with me.

Don’t take it personally that the girl was not responsive — girls usually don’t date other guys when they have a boyfriend. Girls are more emotional, and when they attached, they don’t usually cheat unless she’s not happy.

I’ve dated quite a few beautiful girls in my life, and I can say this one thing — girls are much more attracted to you when you have other hot girls around. They’re also attracted to confident guys. You need to stop being shy and ignoring the girls around you, and start becoming friends with them. the more girls you have around you, the more other girls will start coming around you. So what you should do now, since the homecoming is around the corner, is find a good looking girl that will go with you just totally as friends. Even if it’s a cousin or your sister’s friend or whatever — just take someone. Let the other girls see that you have a date with a pretty girl. Just don’t tell anyone any details at all — as far as anyone else is concerned, she’s just a girl that you met a while back at the mall and that you keep in touch with. If anyone asks questions, just say that you don’t like to talk about your personal life.

Don’t sweat it if you can’t get a date — don’t go alone though. Just remember this and use it as a learning lesson for the future. Right now you’re young — you can easily change old habits and acquire new ones.

Let me ask you this — if I said listen, lets play a game of blackjack. If you win, I’ll give you $1,000. If you lose, you don’t owe me anything. Would you play? Of course you would — because you have nothing to lose and $1,000 to gain. Girls are the same thing man — you don’t have one now anyway. If you try with girls and get turned down, you’re in the same place you are today — but if she says yes, then . . . It’s like anything else in the world, you just need some practice. Start talking to random girls that you’ll never see again anyway. Talk to them and see what happens. Little by little you’ll start gaining more confidence and it’ll be just like talking to one of the guys after a while. You’ll see past the beauty and realize that underneath she’s just a person with a human brain and a human heart.

Let me know if this helps bro . . .

Humble Servant wrote:
Don’t take it personally that the girl was not responsive — girls usually don’t date other guys when they have a boyfriend. Girls are more emotional, and when they attached, they don’t usually cheat unless she’s not happy.

I’ve dated quite a few beautiful girls in my life, and I can say this one thing — girls are much more attracted to you when you have other hot girls around. They’re also attracted to confident guys. You need to stop being shy and ignoring the girls around you, and start becoming friends with them. the more girls you have around you, the more other girls will start coming around you. So what you should do now, since the homecoming is around the corner, is find a good looking girl that will go with you just totally as friends. Even if it’s a cousin or your sister’s friend or whatever — just take someone. Let the other girls see that you have a date with a pretty girl. Just don’t tell anyone any details at all — as far as anyone else is concerned, she’s just a girl that you met a while back at the mall and that you keep in touch with. If anyone asks questions, just say that you don’t like to talk about your personal life.

Don’t sweat it if you can’t get a date — don’t go alone though. Just remember this and use it as a learning lesson for the future. Right now you’re young — you can easily change old habits and acquire new ones.

Let me ask you this — if I said listen, lets play a game of blackjack. If you win, I’ll give you $1,000. If you lose, you don’t owe me anything. Would you play? Of course you would — because you have nothing to lose and $1,000 to gain. Girls are the same thing man — you don’t have one now anyway. If you try with girls and get turned down, you’re in the same place you are today — but if she says yes, then . . . It’s like anything else in the world, you just need some practice. Start talking to random girls that you’ll never see again anyway. Talk to them and see what happens. Little by little you’ll start gaining more confidence and it’ll be just like talking to one of the guys after a while. You’ll see past the beauty and realize that underneath she’s just a person with a human brain and a human heart.

Let me know if this helps bro . . .

thanks for the great advice, just wondering how you think i should react to this girl from now on, shes in a TON of my classes this semester…

lol
i like the shyer guys.
they are more interesting usually
and usually are the best boyfriends.
I like looking for the guys without the dates. because girls arent looking for guys with dates.

usually when I see a guy with a bunch of girls, i get jelous of the girls, i dont look at the guy…i just get jelous or sad wondering why these girls are better than me.

im just sayin.