Love help: I am in a situation like Audrina on the Hills.

shelbylynnfarme

I am in a situation like Audrina on the Hills.

I love this guy and we have been on and off dating forever. We go and date other people but we always come back to each other. I feel like he doesn’t care though, and I really want to let him go, but I CAN’T!! This Summer we did some amazing things. Like almost skinny dipping in a swimming hole at Fish Creek. Just a lot of fun things. I felt the happiest then!! We would cuddle beside the lake. I felt so loved! I just want him back you know?? And he is always going to be there with me. We will always be friends, but I dunno. Things change right? But I CAN’T let go. It’s so hard for me.

I found this guy I really like named Karl. He is amazing and I reallllllllllly like him. But whenever I am with him, all I can think about is Brayden. I love the feeling when I am on his back in the swimming hole with him.

Anyway have any suggestions??

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liberthang #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (24 minutes after post)

loving friendships are forever ..

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A-b-C-d-E-f-G-h 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 hours, 31 minutes after post)

huh?liberthang that didnt make sense.Anyways The swimming hole is gone with, you cant go back to it, its in the past, like everyone wants to go back to when things where perfect, but you cant, you have to look at what you have NOW, and not what you did. Obviously that isnt working for you. You are stuck in the past, dreaming about used to’s. Wake up and smell the roses, he makes you feel bad, then why do you need him. YOU DONT. Karl sounds like a nice guy that cares for you. Brayden sounds like some one who is draining you emotionaly. If he makes you feel like he doesnt care, he probably doesnt, other wise he would be putting effort into it. And it donest sound like he is oing a whole heck of a lot, sounds like you are running around, catering for him and his mistakes. It is his mistake not to treat you better. YOU DONT NEED THAT CRAP FROM A GUY. DONT SAY YOUR OVER HIM, AND WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM, AND THEN WHEN HE WALKS UP TO YOU OR YOUR GROUP OF FRIENDS, SUCK UP TO HIM AND BE ALL FLIRTY HAPPY AND CRAP. act like how you feel, if its pissed at him, be pissed at him. Think of it this way if u are afraid to hurt his feelings, would he do it to you? if the answer is yes then WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR. If not then handle it a bit more delicatly, but still handle them.If you guys are good friend, cool, but you need to draw a line between “friends” and dating. most people say they are over them, they dont flirt ect. BUT THEY DO, IN FRONT OF EVERYONE. no more holding hands, hugging for excess amounts of time, ect. FRIENDS ONLY. otherwise you will be thinking about how to make the next move without it being “seen” So focus all your energy on karl, and “forget” about brayden. If he is your friend then cool. but no flirty stuff should be happening. If you dont think your flirting with him, then ask one of your close friends, cause everyone I know in the situation is. Tell them to tell you when you are flirting with him, and STOP YOU. And DONT GET MAD AT THEM, they are only doing what you told them to. sorry If i sounded a bit harsh in all of this, but people I have found in this kinda situation, need cold hard facts to pull them through. Good Luck!!

huh?liberthang that didnt make sense.Anyways The swimming hole is gone with, you cant go back to it, its in the past, like everyone wants to go back to when things where perfect, but you cant, you have to look at what you have NOW, and not what you did. Obviously that isnt working for you. You are stuck in the past, dreaming about used to's. Wake up and smell the roses, he makes you feel bad, then why do you need him. YOU DONT. Karl sounds like a nice guy that cares for you. Brayden sounds like some one who is draining you emotionaly. If he makes you feel like he doesnt care, he probably doesnt, other wise he would be putting effort into it. And it donest sound like he is oing a whole heck of a lot, sounds like you are running around, catering for him and his mistakes. It is his mistake not to treat you better. YOU DONT NEED THAT CRAP FROM A GUY. DONT SAY YOUR OVER HIM, AND WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM, AND THEN WHEN HE WALKS UP TO YOU OR YOUR GROUP OF FRIENDS, SUCK UP TO HIM AND BE ALL FLIRTY HAPPY AND CRAP. act like how you feel, if its pissed at him, be pissed at him. Think of it this way if u are afraid to hurt his feelings, would he do it to you? if the answer is yes then WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR. If not then handle it a bit more delicatly, but still handle them.If you guys are good friend, cool, but you need to draw a line between "friends" and dating. most people say they are over them, they dont flirt ect. BUT THEY DO, IN FRONT OF EVERYONE. no more holding hands, hugging for excess amounts of time, ect. FRIENDS ONLY. otherwise you will be thinking about how to make the next move without it being "seen" So focus all your energy on karl, and "forget" about brayden. If he is your friend then cool. but no flirty stuff should be happening. If you dont think your flirting with him, then ask one of your close friends, cause everyone I know in the situation is. Tell them to tell you when you are flirting with him, and STOP YOU. And DONT GET MAD AT THEM, they are only doing what you told them to. sorry If i sounded a bit harsh in all of this, but people I have found in this kinda situation, need cold hard facts to pull them through. Good Luck!!

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shelbylynnfarme 2 #
Calgary, AB, CA | 1 year, 4 months ago (21 hours, 20 minutes after post)

Thanks a lot A-B-C-d-E-f-G-h!!!

I will try that and let you know how that goes for me.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 3 months ago (1 month, 4 weeks after post)

well, how did it go?

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