Don’t put so much pressure on yourself mate. I doubt she would travel 1300 miles on a whim. It is normal to be nervous but I think you will find that it will feel natural if it is right. Try not to over analyze everything, be yourself, and have a good time.
agree with burger^^^^ very smart….
just cool down, take a shower, do something to relax yourself…
if she travells that far for you then she has good intentions, but just be careful when she arrives….make sure you keep a close eye on things as people can lie over the net, etc….i not sayig she lying, cos as i said, travelling 1300 miles is not a joke so just be positive, and be yourself mate
so what if you act silly or make mistakes… its something that you both can laugh at together… and remember, im sure she is JUST AS NERVOUS…
stop worrying about so much.. and just enjoy the moment… enjoy each other… and have fun…
and make sure you guys take lots and lots of pictures… as a friend of malori’s, i expect to see some with plenty of smiles.. :)
Remove the words what if.. She has already seen your pic, and besides there is so much more to a person then looks. Obviuosly she cares, or she wouldn’ t be making the trip. Relax and look forward to spending a great time together. Don’t let your nerves’s and what if’s get in the way. Be yourself, and enjoy making great memories together :D
burgerkrieg wrote:
Don’t put so much pressure on yourself mate. I doubt she would travel 1300 miles on a whim. It is normal to be nervous but I think you will find that it will feel natural if it is right. Try not to over analyze everything, be yourself, and have a good time.
I know she wouldn’t come see me on a whim, and i know she loves me, but what if i don’t live up to her expectations? She thinks so highly of me…
Shie wrote:
so what if you act silly or make mistakes… its something that you both can laugh at together… and remember, im sure she is JUST AS NERVOUS… stop worrying about so much.. and just enjoy the moment… enjoy each other… and have fun… and make sure you guys take lots and lots of pictures… as a friend of malori’s, i expect to see some with plenty of smiles.. :)
lol. good advice Shie, laughing is good. :) And don’t worry, there will be pictures a plenty if I have anything to say about it.
calm down mate, i’m sure everything will go just fine. and congratulation!
seas light wrote:
NO WHAT IF”S!!!! null and void :)
lol. ok, i’m trying.
You were honest..and you acted like yourself? Then you’ve nothing to worry about. Everyone comes with flaws and baggage…but her love for you will make her see past that and accept you for who you are.
She’s probably saying what’s not to like :)
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Malori is probably freaking out just as much as you. :D
Relax, everything will be allright.
for one.. you have to remember that… malori is amazed by you… that is awesome..
you have absolutely nothing to worry about.. just be the person that she knows.. and malori is probably a bit nervous as well…
and remember, looks arent everything… its the personalities of people that click, not looks.
Bogdan wrote:
Malori is probably freaking out just as much as you. :D
Relax, everything will be allright.
lol. i know she is, that makes me nervous too. what if she freaks out so much it makes her too uncomfortable to be with me.
Shie wrote:
for one.. you have to remember that… malori is amazed by you… that is awesome.. you have absolutely nothing to worry about.. just be the person that she knows.. and malori is probably a bit nervous as well… and remember, looks arent everything… its the personalities of people that click, not looks.
i know looks arent everything, if they were i would be screwed. :P I know she is amazed by me, which I dont get. But what if I don’t amaze her in real life?
OMG DUDE!! Like seriously… You two need to chill out! You both have the same exact worries, and they’re all PERFECTLY normal! It’s important that both of you continue to be yourselves. Don’t worry, just relax… it will all be fine. Enjoy the awkward silences(if there are any)… they can actually be cute.
I can’t even tell you how in love with you she is… and I know you are with her. If that love is genuine, nothing will mess this up. ok? *hugs* Take a deep breath, embrace her, and give her a nice huge kiss on the lips! If at any time she seems uncomfortable, I’m sure she’d let you know, or you would be able to tell. At which point, you can swoop in, and make sure she’s fine… just trust me, everything will work itself out.
Before I met my bf of almost 5 years in person (we met online too), I was extremely nervous too… I was a bit shy at first, but eventually we warmed up to each other on the first date, and it was great… all 5 years! lol… don’t really know where it went wrong, well i do, but yeah.. anyway… you’ll be fine, don’t worry!! :)
There you go again with the WHAT IF’S .. You will amaze her. She probably already is, that’s why she is coming to see you :)
The uncomfortability will be broken when you meet. May be a little awkward at first, but you’ll get over it pretty quickly. There will be the surrealness of finally meeting, but it subsides.
obamadaisy is absolutely correct, awkward silences are the best. They make the moments last longer so you can stare into each others eyes.
Eye gazings are the best :D
Connection of the souls that no amount of words can replicate…
Eh… there’s a story about a creature named SnowDragon I may have to tell you.
The whole part of the fun is feeling the way you do, it is exciteing, just try not to turn it into a bad feeling so much.
To be honest she is probably feeling exactly the same, maybe worse as she is traveling to see you and won’t be in a place she knows.
Just stay calm and enjoy it, I think it is sweet, oh and I bet the visit will be over so fast as you will both enjoy it so much.
Goodluck and have fun.
aww dont stress urself out, be yourself- shes willing to go see you and im happy for you guys :) dont over do anything and keep things cool and normal. at least u guys know each other and u can do things you both like. :)
Hy! Your amazing, Mal loves you a lot! No worries dude, just go meet her, everything will be fine, really. It daunting meeting up with people from the internet, but you guys are so great together, it’ll be fine :)
Yup I really think you mean a lot to her and can her to you as well. Don’t worry, just let things be let life take course don’t worry over what hasn’t happened yet, live for the moments not the future. You’ll be fine, best wishes to the both of you.
Thanks everyone. I’m still freaking out. But I’m going to enjoy it anyways.
well here….
~shie slaps hybrid across the back of the head~
did that work??? lmfao..
Shie wrote:
well here….
~shie slaps hybrid across the back of the head~
did that work??? lmfao..
thanks Shie, I appreciate it.
heheheheheheh you are welcome… did it slap a bit of sense into ya… lol
Shie wrote:
heheheheheheh you are welcome… did it slap a bit of sense into ya… lol
lol. nope, i’m to hard headed. good try though. :P
lmfao…. well, i can run you over with my car like i did my ex husband… if you need rougher treatment.. lmfao..
Shie wrote:
lmfao…. well, i can run you over with my car like i did my ex husband… if you need rougher treatment.. lmfao..
lmao. no thanks, i’ll pass on that one. But there’s nothing wrong with a little rough treatment. *wink*
hehehehehehe,,,, well save that for malori.. hehehehehehehehe…. but you are right… ~wink~
Hybrid Theory invited 1 user to read this post 1 year, 1 month ago.
sheesh baby i promise not to run you over with a car,
but i wil be rough if you don’t feed me.
:P
Malori In Love ♥ wrote:
sheesh baby i promise not to run you over with a car,
but i wil be rough if you don’t feed me.
:P
ROFL! I will stuff you full. *wink wink*
…but you can find some other reason to be rough, cant you?
Hybrid Theory wrote:
Malori In Love ♥ wrote:
sheesh baby i promise not to run you over with a car,
but i wil be rough if you don’t feed me.
:P
ROFL! I will stuff you full. *wink wink*
Hybrid Theory wrote:
…but you can find some other reason to be rough, cant you?
~plugs ears~ la la la la la la la la la la la la la la
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Freaking out a little…Ok, alot!
I met the most amazing girl here on HELP.COM, Malori, and we love each other. BUT, we live 1300 miles apart. I bought her a plane ticket and she’s coming down to stay with me this weekend.
I’m really nervous about meeting her. I love her so much, what if she doesn’t want me? We’ve never met, what if she doesn’t think I’m cute in person(she’s seen photos)? What if I do something stupid, or say something wrong? GAH!
I have never been nervous like this before, especially about meeting a girl. I really really love her, and I want it to be perfect. I know thats stupid, I know not everything will go like I imagine. I just need to calm down, but I don’t know how. I trust her, very much, but I’m still worried that I’ll mess it up.
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