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So my girlfriend is now friends with my guy friend .

. . give me some advice please!!

My girlfriend needed a job, so I introduced her to my friend (who is married, by the way) who was the manager of a business in town. She started working there and so they began to get to know one another. She told me about them taking breaks together to talk and what not.

Since then, neither one of them work at the business anymore. But they keep in regular contact with each other. They call each other when they’re upset about something or happy about something. They meet for coffee and lunch — sometimes for 3 hours at a time. Apparently she has told him that I’m uncomfortable with the whole situation, but they continue the relationship and he’s never called me to see if all this is ok with me.

I think it’s wrong on both sides. What do you all think?

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mr guy man offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

I think she needs to spend a little less time with him.
But they may have just become good friends.
I think you should talk to her about it some more.
And maybe you should call him.

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1 year, 1 month ago (14 minutes after post)

you can’t choose who people are going to become friends with.

if it bothers you, call your friend and talk about it.
it obviously doesn’t bother him, so you can’t expect him to understand what is going on with you.

but you need to really talk to her… if it bothers you she needs to know.

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bigmattma offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (7 months after post)

Similar situation. My friend is staying at my girlfriend’s apartment until he finds a place. Really freaking awkward and irritating. The worst part is that neither of them said anything about it until the day of and I can’t talk to her while I’m there because he is too. Relationships are just too much man.

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