Love help: I want to fall in love… can someone please help me find - Help.com

I think you may have found out where you are going wrong..
You don’t find love, love finds you, I know that is corny but it is true, also whats true is that most times you find what your searching for when you stop looking for it.

she is right. :D

rxchatter wrote:
Wow… you hit me on the first reply…
I think you’re right…

Thanks :)

Concentrate less on finding something like love and more on life, go out, meet people have fun, visit friends.
Another tip is that sometime the person you will love has always been there right under your nose.

rxchatter wrote:
I know… I remember my past relationships, I didn’t look for it… I guess, it’s just taking longer this time to happen….

Takeing longer?
Is there a time limit on finding someone and loveing them?
Sometimes you find someone right away and things go sour quickly other times it can take months or years but it would be worth the wait.

Ever noticed how when you are in a relationship you seem to get chatted up more than you did when you were single?
And when your single there seems to be no one around?
Well it is all to do with attitude, when you are in a relationship your not looking for anything or anyone else and that is an attractive quality as you are only being yourself, when you are single your like an animal hunting prey even if you don’t think it and you are over compensationg your personality to fit in with what you think a partner would want.

The point is, stop trying, have fun, enjoy life and be yourself. If you do these things then you will find someone who loves you for who you are rather than who you are trying to be.

That’s right :D

poor babe :D dont worry too much on it
just lay back and chill besides the more people you know the more likely one will be that true blue love you wanted all along, well i guess that sounds a little cheesy xp

sometimes life isn’t about what you want but how you live the present!! Most of the time, you don’t get what you’ve always wanted but that does not stop tomorrow from coming!! …….

dont look for love, its not easy to find. just give a chance to ladies you meet, and maybeu will fall in love with them, if not then there are plenty more fish in the sea.

and there always is an alternative, if u go to love and matchmaking websites u may find someone there, i hear all sorts of stories about those things. xx

well how much Money have you got i can arrange a few things….

slimline2 wrote:
well how much Money have you got i can arrange a few things….

haha

rxchatter wrote:

slimline2 wrote:
well how much Money have you got i can arrange a few things….

I’ve got a few grand on my savings…

Yeah but thats not love lol, that would be lust and last about 10 mins ;)

rxchatter wrote:

slimline2 wrote:
well how much Money have you got i can arrange a few things….

I’ve got a few grand on my savings…

Bl**dy hell man !!

I reckon you’ll find love twice in one night with that. lol

well i can arrange longer love .Show me the money….

lol; lol; lol

Love you long time

I dunno, love is a funny thing really. It not around every corner. It kinda creeps up on you when you least expect it, ya know ? And when it does happen it makes ya crazy n ya do stupid things that you wouldnt normally do.

Like empty the whole entire coffee jar into your mug because you cant stop thinkin about “HER”.

:/

here are some links u might wanna try:

http://www.match.com/

http://www.mysinglefriend.com/?gclid=…

http://www.perfectmatch.com/lnd/cinde…

http://www.datingdirect.com/signup/la…

this is a link that leads to the websites whether on subscription or free.

http://www.dating-site-advisor.com/

hope this helped xx

http://www.plentyoffish.com

is a good one to…. and free

rxchatter wrote:
how about http://www.help.com ?

not everyone here is looking for love. u could give it a try in a chat room, but the best way if ur desperate for someone is one of those matchmaking sites. (apart from going out and meeting people)

look in the Mirror and blow kisses.