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Are you a namsy, pamsy, sissified complainer?

Let me be very clear, no matter how much money you have, what status you have in life, life is tuff…. It does not change for the rich man, poor man, the begger man or thief. People think, getting a new lover, changing addresses, changing jobs, etc. will make life easier…The “grass is greener on the other side,” is the attitude of lots of people. And, they make the change, quess what, same World, same problems, same headaches, etc… follow them. Folks life is about solving problems, not running from them!

All people have problems. It not the problems we have, it is how we react to those problems. We must not be “cry babies,” sissies, etc., but we must step up to plate and be “all we can be!” So, when start to feel sorry for yourself, go down to the terminal ward at the hospital and see the people who have real problems. Go to Walter Reed hospital and see the men who have lost their legs and arms in the Iraq War and you will see your problems are minor. There is always someone with bigger problems.

So, be a man or the woman that you should be! Don’t be a namsy, pamsy, sissified person….and belly ache about your problems and life. Be positive and happy with what you have! Think about others and not about yourself all the time. Life is about loving and helping others. So, do your part…contribute to the process…don’t pull us down. Lift us up!

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Winter.Rain offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

I like it. Brutally honest. ^^

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

Thanks Cotton, surely worth to read this whenever i feel like i am 6th feet below the ground. :)

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miss_enigma offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

Great post Cotton, can I complain now? I’m having a rotten morning. I am going to be a namsy pansy sissy bonafide wendy whiner.

Perhaps I’m more angry, I’ll just growl and get it out of my system, permission to vent?

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR! #^%^&*(&*#@#@!!@*&)()_(*)+_&*$%#$@!#$FHFHSDT#

*picks up mess, apologizes, blushes and removes self from post*

You’re a prince. I’m going to go kick some ars now!

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Rotech927 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

Lmao MsE…why heck yes..go for it…

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

Excellent post!!!!! a must read :)

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Rotech927 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

Lil, understood…

Thanks Seas Light…thank you!

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miss_enigma offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

Cotton2226 wrote:
Lmao MsE…why heck yes..go for it…

Thanks, I knew you’d understand. I’ll stop sullying your post with my personal drama now lol…carry on…you didn’t see me hehehe.

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Victoria Sponge offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (27 minutes after post)

Thats exactly what my mum always said to me whenever I cried about something, still does to this day, and while i thought she was uncareing what she actaully done for me was make me strong, I could not have gotten through half the stuff life has thrown at me without being given this advice. Thanks Cotton for a great post

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iwana offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (37 minutes after post)

I’ve always taken the approach of putting a time limit on my “pity parties.” If I catch myself in the middle of one, I’ll allow myself to finish it, resolving to work on the problem, if it’s one that can be fixed, after my “party” is over. And also realizing that if it’s not something that can be fixed, then making myself take the “glass half full” approach to the situation. But sometimes, nothing is more theraputic than a good cry!

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

this is my kind of post! and So true, attitude is everything. Its something i had to teach myself but well worth it. Feel free to invite me to your posts anytime :)

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Rotech927 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

The truth will set you free! Don’t be afraid of it…just tell it like is…put your cards on the table! Know when to fold and when to hold !

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 43 minutes after post)

Cotton… sometimes the grass IS greener on the other side of the fence.

But be wary… because it won’t be until you step over that fence that you’ll find out the only reason the grass is greener is because they use more BS on that side! And THAT stench will never come off your shoes.

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Marylou offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 hours, 46 minutes after post)

Well truthfully speeking, I’ve been spending enough time on this website for this to finally be very clear to me. People are people wherever you go. No, the grass isn’t greener anywhere else. This website helped me see that in a very short time.
So thank you for that Help.com!

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thep offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 hours, 56 minutes after post)

OK. I will become a people builder. Sounds good. Building people up with love and understanding but with respect.

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Anubis offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 hours, 7 minutes after post)

Wonderful ideal, harder in practice… :)

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Rotech927 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Amen Thep…great goal and Anubis is right..harder in practice, but a worthy goal!

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SoulRising offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

Thank you for inviting me, right now I feel content to stay in your presence, I sit back and raise my glass to you, I smile because you, Cotton2226, are speaking.

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Rotech927 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

SoulRising, oh my gosh….my name is not Obama..loll..but, thank you very much!

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forexbystor offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

Well said :)

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I left offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 491 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

I agree, but I whine sometimes :( Then I bore myself :) Too bad Skype isn’t up yet or I’d do the horrid whiney mock voice just to torment you. :) About 4 people on this site have heard it :) Yes, complaining is annoying.

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