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Go with number 1…be brave and bold…it will be more fulfilling as a relationship…If it doesn’t work..go for number 2…perhaps you could be friends with number 2 and share your dilemma with her …at least you might get to know her a bit…

No actually, number 2!!!! and tell number 1 that you are dating someone else but develop a friendship with number 1.

Yep. Are they both lesbians?

I know the things you can’t have always seem more attractive, but why spend time on someone who doesn’t reciprocate and acts strange in person? Sounds like a longterm pain.

Times raises a good point. If the ladies of whom you speak are not of the reciprocating sexuality then you’ve already fallen before getting to the first hurdle! I know that surely this should be a given if you plan on having a relationship with them both, but you weren’t clear.

okies, number two has gotten back with EX… so looks like its number one. a sign?

Dr Awesome McCool wrote:
okies, number two has gotten back with EX… so looks like its number one. a sign?

How do you know that?

K to the m-f’ing Ing wrote:

Dr Awesome McCool wrote:
okies, number two has gotten back with EX… so looks like its number one. a sign?

How do you know that?

i know tht because i introduced number 2 to wolverine. we are good friends me and wolverine in the real world donchaknow?

Why So Steve? wrote:

Dr Awesome McCool wrote:
i know tht because i introduced number 2 to wolverine. we are good friends me and wolverine in the real world donchaknow?

He did not know. Terribly fascinating though ;D

its the truth it is, i swear it lol… infact i should be meeting her for coffee tommorow im sure the conversation shall be all about this lol

Why So Steve? wrote:

Big Giant head wrote:
its the truth it is, i swear it lol… infact i should be meeting her for coffee tommorow im sure the conversation shall be all about this lol

Tremendous. I would come too but I don’t know you well enough to invite myself to your social gatherings. And I don’t fancy traveling to Scotland on such short notice. A fan of ‘Third Rock From The Sun’ by any chance?

indeed i am and now that you know more about me how about you come along for some coffee. lol

Why So Steve? wrote:
Oh? What happened there then?

i think maybe you hit something in your excitement and rush to find trousers…
so you to would seem to be a fan of third rock from the sun? a fine show. well i hope you dont mind starbucks? or is costa more your thing?… could go to a wee cafe thts what im thinking anyway lol…

Why So Steve? wrote:

Big Giant head wrote:
i think maybe you hit something in your excitement and rush to find trousers…
so you to would seem to be a fan of third rock from the sun? a fine show. well i hope you dont mind starbucks? or is costa more your thing?… could go to a wee cafe thts what im thinking anyway lol…

I don’t mind actually. It’s only in the last few months that I have discovered the joy of coffee. I have partaken of Costa and Starbucks recently, and I feel that Starbucks is the better of the two. However a quaint little cafe would be most pleasant. Whereabouts in Scotland are you?

fantastic sir, coffee is the fuel which sustains that of my mental well being. i don’t care where i get it lol… i live in Auld reekie sir, hope thts not to far for you.

maybe we can meet half way… Newcastle?.. maybe Middlesebourgh

infact forget Middlesbourgh, why would anyone want to go there…

Why So Steve? wrote:

Big Giant head wrote:
infact forget Middlesbourgh, why would anyone want to go there…

My mum was from Middlesborough.

i wouldn’t have believed for a second a Middlesbourgh gal could have spawned such an intelligent and nice guy.

Why So Steve? wrote:

Why So Steve? wrote:
My mum was from Middlesborough.

Not really. I wanted to get a reaction, but you’ve just run and hid instead! No fun at all.

i react only to light and sound… and food.