life help: Mid-life?

zip-in-time

Mid-life?

or just the way it is??
Heres my proublem in my younger years i always got good treatment from strangers,brief aquantances,co-workers ect..im semi good looking and a real people person..friendly..joke alot ..
Here lately especially since i turned 40 im now 43 i get these bad vibes,wierd looks..co-workers that i can telljust dont like me.now is it
1.im older,fatter,lessattractive so people look at me different
2.im being hyper sensitive..
3. people are changing in this day and age of war,financial hardships, etc
The co-workers are different they may have a reason its the total strangers that gets me help..

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evansent 2008 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (30 minutes after post)

i think its all in your mind lv,they say life begins at 40
why asny your life begun??

have you actually asked your co-workers if they feel like you have changed?

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quebec980 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (57 minutes after post)

Actually your picture looks as though you are fun, livley and friendly and approachable. I’d say you are probably being slightly paranoid? Have you tried approaching your work colleagues or waiting for them to come to you?

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quebec980 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (58 minutes after post)

quebec980 wrote:
Actually your picture looks as though you are fun, livley and friendly and approachable. I’d say you are probably being slightly paranoid? Have you tried approaching your work colleagues or waiting for them to come to you?

Oops looked at wrong photo. LOL

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evansent 2008 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

dshep,if you feel horrible on the inside this will show on the outside!
you had any depression lately?

evansent 2008 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 hours, 6 minutes after post)

i dont know whether you like smelling farts lol!!!
or your a smart fella
anyway where you gone?

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1 year, 1 month ago (6 hours, 20 minutes after post)

People expect one to be more of a parental figure and less of a pal when older I think.

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