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so the love of my life, left today to go back home after 2 yrs of being away…

she had previously told me that she didnt see and “us” in her home town, that “us” was here(fl). but after begging her not to go, for her to stay…. and her telling me she has to, and doesnt know if she’ll come back to me…. now that i have dropped her off at the airport, saying good bye, she sent me a txt saying “I’ll make you a deal, i’m gonna go ahead and go home… gimmie a couple of months and I PROMISE if things arent going better and i miss u like crazy still, i will let you try KS, but u can only bring clothes, lol” what would u do if u were in my shoes? I’ve been to kansas, met the family, friends, and i actually like it there, i tried before to get her to let me come with, but she was so paranoid, because the last time she moved to another state, the person she was with up and left back home because he couldnt adapt… what would u guys do?

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miss_enigma offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

Give her time as she asked, sometimes people need to figure these things out on there own and no amount of talking, begging and persuasion can change that, as frustrating as it is. What is meant to be will be.

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

I agree. She sounds like she can’t make up her mind right now. Take it easy on her too she was away from her home and family. That’s not an easy thing to do. I’m sorry you have to be in this place honey. :( Hugs and best wishes

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 hours, 27 minutes after post)

It kind of sounds like you’re getting played. “Oh, I’ll leave you on tenterhooks while I figure out whether or not I love you enough to let you move in with me!” Um, okay.
I agree that you should give her the time she wants to make her decision, but it isn’t ONLY her decision. You have a duty to yourself as well. To keep yourself from going crazy while you wait for her to figure out if she’s willing to let you give up your life for her.
And maybe the situation isn’t the way I see it, but. Don’t give up more than you can live with if she isn’t willing to do the same. Relationships have to be balanced.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (10 months after post)

The love of my life moved to ireland for me. We met in wales where he is from when i was on holidays last year. We only knew eachother 10 days it was love at first sight. We have been living in ireland together for a year and he even applied for Uni here. Friday we got a call from the CAO which is a system used in ireland to decide wether you get into uni or not. All along he thought he had the points to get into UNI and the CAO told him that one of his A levels will not be counted. His offers were meant to be out on the 27th and now he cant go. He has to move back to wales to do law soon and i am heartbroken coz i cant go cz i have so much tying me down in ireland. I wanna just curl up and die. We had our whole future planned out and now it has been taken away from us. He is heartbroken too and doesnt wanna go but he has to go to get his degree cz he cant be wrkin in a bar for the rest of his life. Feel like sumbody close to me has died that is how bad it hurts.

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