im pretty sure every mother worries about this at some point but look around and try to find a popular daycare.. one that peole trust. theres a much MUCH bigger chance it’ll be a good daycare rather than a bad one.
This one is good, its credited and has seprate classes for different ages, along with careing about learning. Im just so worried about this, to the point I litterly just cried so hard my head hurts. Its my first daycare and I am so worried!
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In the words of Billy the bigmouth bass, “Don’t worry, be happy.”
Aw, Washuchan don’t worry, be happy.
I think this is something that every parent go through.
You said this daycare sounds good, I’m sure you don’t have to worry about it so much.
Connor will be fine, and he will make new friends, which will be very fun of course.
I think he will like it.
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Commander Ikari was faster than me… only for a little bit…
Haro-chama, is that a pic of you? Beautiful!
Thanks guys, I am trying but having someone I knew only for a weekend watch my son is scary for me…. alot.
Delicious Haro wrote:
D:Commander Ikari was faster than me… only for a little bit…
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Ikari-kun, you wouldnt believe me, but I have Bob Marly’s version on my ipod. lol! Its so totally my life too. My last apartment, RentaCenter came and took my bed, then I was kicked out for nonpayment of rent. lol!
I dont know why but it does scare me alot. like, suicide scary, accident scary, and so on.
WashuChan wrote:
Ikari-kun, you wouldnt believe me, but I have Bob Marly’s version on my ipod. lol! Its so totally my life too. My last apartment, RentaCenter came and took my bed, then I was kicked out for nonpayment of rent. lol!I dont know why but it does scare me alot. like, suicide scary, accident scary, and so on.
Try asking parents who have, or have had, children in this program.
I think I would rather weld my hand to my rocker panel in school than do this…
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WashuChan wrote:
Ikari-kun, you wouldnt believe me, but I have Bob Marly’s version on my ipod. lol! Its so totally my life too. My last apartment, RentaCenter came and took my bed, then I was kicked out for nonpayment of rent. lol!I dont know why but it does scare me alot. like, suicide scary, accident scary, and so on.
Try asking parents who have, or have had, children in this program.
I cant… I have no friends or anything.. that and its a short notice problem. I have to put him in daycare Monday or risk not going to class and loosing my financial aid.
Read reviews of the school online. Look it up on Google maps, the marker on the map will have reviews of the place.
It’s the feeling every parent goes through when leaving their child in care away from home. It’s perfectly normal to feel this way, and by the sounds of it, you’ve made a GREAT choice of place. I’m sure everything will be fine, and he’ll come how with smiles and you’ll be filled with relief and questions of “what was I so worried about?”
It’s an angst EVERY parent goes through with their children, you’ll feel it when he goes to school the first day too. But it’s all for the best, I assure you, and there’s nothing for you to worry about.
YOur a good mommy, i can tell so when things do come up you will automatically pick up on it, then deal with things when they come, and dont fear the worst and worry. Use your energies and time for more important things. you know were here for you if any thing happens. prepare as best you can and just do it, it will get easier , trust me .heres more support if you need it http://www.momtourage.com/
I can do that? I didnt know i could google daycares…. cool! That would help, thanks Ikari-kun! Always there for help.
~Grace~ wrote:
It’s the feeling every parent goes through when leaving their child in care away from home. It’s perfectly normal to feel this way, and by the sounds of it, you’ve made a GREAT choice of place. I’m sure everything will be fine, and he’ll come how with smiles and you’ll be filled with relief and questions of “what was I so worried about?”It’s an angst EVERY parent goes through with their children, you’ll feel it when he goes to school the first day too. But it’s all for the best, I assure you, and there’s nothing for you to worry about.
really? My mom says its normal too, but she says it in a way like my worries are completly stupid and im an idiot for thinking about them to begin with.
Thank you Felicity, glad to hear from you again, we havent talked in a long while. :) Ill go there, and google like Ikari-kun said. I am just so scared of anyone but me or family taking care of him. Hes my life.
::hugs everyone that came to help me:: Thanks so much guys, this place rocks! :D
News about any bad things happening in any setting such as a daycare center can be detrimental to the whole group.
But think about a disaster like an airplane crash. You only hear the bad news. You never hear about the 1000’s of flights that landed successfully. True?
Your welcome sweetie. and yes it has been a while. i seen it was you and had to come. Especially anything that involves children. love kids :D ……….give your worries a time limit. say 10 min or so. if you havent achieved an answer or thoughts of ‘the worst’ happening then stop and do something to get your mind off it, and go back to it late if you feel the need.
Legitimate daycare centers have to be inspected every year and renew their license. If you don’t see a license, ask to see it and check to make sure it is up to date. If not, alert the authorities. Ask to see the inspection report also to see what things they had to fix, if any. This is a public record and they are required to show it to people that ask to see it.
southern_comfort wrote:
News about any bad things happening in any setting such as a daycare center can be detrimental to the whole group.But think about a disaster like an airplane crash. You only hear the bad news. You never hear about the 1000’s of flights that landed successfully. True?
::nod nod:: yup. I never do hear anything about good things.
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Your welcome sweetie. and yes it has been a while. i seen it was you and had to come. Especially anything that involves children. love kids :D ……….give your worries a time limit. say 10 min or so. if you havent achieved an answer or thoughts of ‘the worst’ happening then stop and do something to get your mind off it, and go back to it late if you feel the need.
::hugs:: Thankies Felicity. I will do that. My mom made the call to the daycare so I have to wait till she comes home to get the name of the daycare, though I was there when she called them.
southern_comfort wrote:
Legitimate daycare centers have to be inspected every year and renew their license. If you don’t see a license, ask to see it and check to make sure it is up to date. If not, alert the authorities. Ask to see the inspection report also to see what things they had to fix, if any. This is a public record and they are required to show it to people that ask to see it.
SWEET! I will! I feel so much better when I talk with everyone here, my worries are better now.
Thanks so much guys, now that I am not so worried, Im gonna close the post. Thanks for all your help and if anyone needs me, Ill be checkin my shouts. :D!
::hugs!::
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