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GUY TROUBLE!

Okay so here is my problem. i have liked this guy for a few months and i have totally fallen for him. totally head over heels in love! so he had been flirting with me for about 2 or so weeks at practice. (fall play and marching band) and he kinda found out that i like him and i found out that he didn’t like me “that way”. so i had asked him why he was flirting with me even know he didn’t like me “that way” and he said “i wasn’t flirting with you, it was a misunderstanding. i dont like you that way.” i had spent almost all of saturday night, which was when i found out that he didn’t like me, crying on my best guy friends shoulder. he knew the entire story. and he is best friends with the guy i like so i want to not like him. i try so hard not to like him. i am trying to be nice to him, but not the i like you nice, the lets just be friends nice. i need help. whenever i see him i like him more and more. his little sister and i are good friends (from marching band) she knows i like him but i told her that i am trying not to like him she is helping alot. but i need some help! can anyone help me?! PLEASE!?!?!?!?!

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mr_biscui offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

Time is all you need. You’ve got it pretty bad but eventually you won’t feel like this and everything will be back to normal. You don’t need to actually do anything, just carry on talking to him and as long as your both comfortable things will naturally sort themselves out.

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TheJDevil offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

guys are flirts and whores they suck you should throw tampons at him.

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

TheJDevil wrote:
guys are flirts and whores they suck you should throw tampons at him.

Lol wow…

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TheJDevil offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 minutes after post)

im a member of a facebook group called “Boys suck, and I’d like to throw tampons at them”

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Peter-Individual offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (46 minutes after post)

TheJDevil wrote:
guys are flirts and whores they suck you should throw tampons at him.

im a guy and i can agree with that =/

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(>'')>~~~Kyle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

Idk,…it annoys the S**T outta me to see guys with girlfriends flirting with other girls, one example from my school, BAND CLASS! lol. Seeing girls sitting on guys laps that they aren’t going out with, guys and girls giving each other shoulder massages, it f***ing pisses me off! WHY (do so)?!

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TheJDevil offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 hours, 7 minutes after post)

Peter-Individual wrote:

TheJDevil wrote:
guys are flirts and whores they suck you should throw tampons at him.

im a guy and i can agree with that =/

hehe, im a guy too!

Kyle_01 wrote:
Idk,…it annoys the S**T outta me to see guys with girlfriends flirting with other girls, one example from my school, BAND CLASS! lol. Seeing girls sitting on guys laps that they aren’t going out with, guys and girls giving each other shoulder massages, it f***ing pisses me off! WHY (do so)?!

ew, that bothers me too.

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Peter-Individual offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 hours, 42 minutes after post)

Kyle_01 wrote:
Idk,…it annoys the S**T outta me to see guys with girlfriends flirting with other girls, one example from my school, BAND CLASS! lol. Seeing girls sitting on guys laps that they aren’t going out with, guys and girls giving each other shoulder massages, it f***ing pisses me off! WHY (do so)?!

xD girls can be just as bad at times i know from experience XD

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

wow i now how u feel allmost the same thing happend to me but more like he said he liked me and went out with me as a joke i cryed forever it will blow over

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