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In 10 days, we will decide if we can give us another chance.

I really hate this situation.
I miss him. But I don’t know if I should get back with him.
We are both thinking about it.
There is a reason why we are in this situation. We have to think.
But I cannot think clearly, coz feelings come first.

I know that I just need time.
But I just miss him sooooo much.
I am afraid that I am going to send him text or call and say I wana get back.
I even deleted his number to prevent the situation!! lol
ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

what do you guys do in this kind of situation?

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frette offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (6 minutes after post)

i thought u were talking to urself for a minute lol, like golem.. he might get in touch with you, i don’t know.. if it’s right it’ll work out.. don’t panic.. too much

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4 years, 7 months ago (16 minutes after post)

i guess i was talking to myself.
i know what im supposed to do. think. and wait for 10 days.

but the feelings come first. uuugghhh

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Amie offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (38 minutes after post)

my ex and i tried something like this. it didn’t work. think to yourself: why are you guys taking a ‘break’ in the first place? Maybe i’m being pessimistic and things will work between you two. but you’re right, feelings get in the way rational decision making. Look at your relationship as if it was a close friends. what would you have to say about it?

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Anonymous #
4 years, 7 months ago (52 minutes after post)

actually i broke up with him.

we didn’t have any big problem. we forgot to appreciate each others coz we have lived together for one year. We both started stressed out. We didn’t even have arguments. We both don’t like it. We were talking about I move out and keep this relationship.

But what he did got my nerve and broke up with him.

Now we both have to think what we really want.
I have to think if i am ready for re-start relationship in 10 days.

Because I miss him or he misses me, it doesn’t mean we want to be together, right?

this feelings suck!

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naughty__stuf offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

well.. do what u fink is best.. if u love him follow ur heart.. plz.. i let mine go.. n hes messin me about.. now.. dont leave it to late..

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naughty__stuf offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 47 minutes after post)

you wouldnt miss him if nothing was there between u 2.. in the first place..

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