communication failure help: nobody ever cooperates with me, or even listens or interacts - Help.com

wolfgang wrote:
that’s pretty sad. just look where u live lol what dod u expect the middle of teh ocean? lol

mhrtoo wrote:
be more assertive! cant allow people to push you around like that. just break out of your comfort zone and either yell or be slightly rude to get people to listen. dont overdo it tho…

or listen in the first place, i bet they never had a clue what i was talking about

i don’t do scary things, they just like to act scared in response to any sentence i say without smiling the particular smile they like to see

Anonymous wrote:
being alone and alienated is cool… start wearing black to be goth or emo.. then you can relate to other goths and emos… and then you will be around people who understand u!! TA-DA!!!

i don’t want to be goth or emo or anything, it’s just like riding a new maintstream on a smaller earth

wolfgang wrote:
Sorry I don’t understand. Why exactly are they scared of you? why do they not want to talk to you?

maybe because i don’t appreciate it when they hurt each other or me, they just never take criticism, and i don’t why the hell they are scared, or if they are -adjective- then idk why they are -adjective-

Anonymous wrote:
Thats the problem with being a social creature, you need to adhere to social hierarchy.. Now if you were a free floating amoeba you wouldnt need anyone else

ya i tell that to myself everyday

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wolfgang wrote:
Sorry, but I’m not getting the whole picture. Can’t help if I don’t know what needs to be fixed. You’re basically just telling me what they do not why they do this….

lazy will reply on that…but my answer to why they do it is….. because people are *holes. Top drawer, Class A, Clenched teeth and sweat on brow, fist pumping A*holes!They just dont let you be!!! I mean seriously, its insane. It drives me insane.

it does me too, and the art in it all is that they are all apparently doing their best to be good
talk about mass failure

Anonymous wrote:
Just today in bloody 8 hours that I was at work, they managed to take credit for my achievement… did not give me a richly deserved promotion.. ignored my alarms and objections, went ahead with the project, failed miserably and then blamed ME!!

all in just one day!

that’s the spirit

i wonder what they would be thinking

wolfgang wrote:
Sorry, but I’m not getting the whole picture. Can’t help if I don’t know what needs to be fixed. You’re basically just telling me what they do not why they do this….

my take on why they do this; i think they have been taught their own parameters that choose for them who to listen to and who not to.

Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I’m not sure about the former. -Albert Einstein

aaron??? wrote:
lol i feel the same way my rl friends if u call em that pretty much ignore my competly:P

so what do u think, George? lol jk

yeah ignoring can feel like stones hitting the head, i only ignore a call if i know for sure i cannot handle it without falling into a nervous breakdown, unfortunately that risk is large on most of the calls i receive so i cast my simcard to the ocean about 2 weeks ago

but try calling other people, or meeting new ones?

mhrtoo wrote:
so possibly meet new people? maybe these people just dont respect you or are too immature to take you seriously

i want to and i keep trying, i just never run into people who happen to be what i need, there’s just something everyone seems to have in common that i don’t have in common with them and is coming between me and them?

aaron??? wrote:
myb after i graduate but kinda annoyed that ill b ingnoredat the prom so ill b the loser who sits in the corner:P

LOSERS RRRUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUULE!!!!!!!!

i used to take an ipod or the like to settings like that, so that at least i’d listen to stuff that i wanna hear

Urine Sane wrote:
well with that attitude youre always going to be that way. its YOU whos taking you from bed to computer to bed. so change it. do something different.

sure i’m on it, but right after i finish my well needed work, thx

chunkymove wrote:
You say no one listens. What you trying to say.

And go for a walk outside every day. Its good for everything from oxygen to digestion, eyesight to vitamin D.

aighty, thx (: