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I just want to feel normal again but I don’t know how.

I found this number on the internet and called it last night. Talking seemed to help. I thought that maybe if I slept if off it would go away. Obviously I was wrong. I can’t explain the way I feel I just know it’s been like this for probably….3-4 months and I just can’t shake it. It’s interupting my life and relationships. Any advice?

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

whats wrong?

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sidewaysx offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

It’s hard to put a finger on it exactly. I don’t know, it’s like, I’ve been stuck in that spaced out feeling for a long time and can’t get rid of it. I’ve found a way to deal with things but unfortunatly it’s not exactly healthy I know and am working on that. Just seems life isn’t worth much right now I’m afraid

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

we all feel like that from time to time hun.
is there depression in the family?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

Just enjoy this feeling.
i wish there were people out there who would boo me when I tell them I’m a failure, instead of trying to convince me otherwise.

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sidewaysx offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

Yeah there is. quite a bit too. Thats why I don’t want to go to them for advice. They all have their own demonds ya know?

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

ahbap3 wrote:
Just enjoy this feeling.
i wish there were people out there who would boo me when I tell them I’m a failure, instead of trying to convince me otherwise.

why do you wana be put down?

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

i know lv,there prob wrapped up in their own demons to even notice your pain

there are other methods that you could implement with your depression :)

sidewaysx wrote:
Yeah there is. quite a bit too. Thats why I don’t want to go to them for advice. They all have their own demonds ya know?

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ahbap3 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (18 minutes after post)

it’s just not realistic. We are surrounded by hiding monsters, like, sickness, accidents, death, poverty and yet we try to fool oursevles that everything’s just fine. We have nothing but each others, and honesty is essential.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (21 minutes after post)

evansent2008 wrote:
i know lv,there prob wrapped up in their own demons to even notice your painthere are other methods that you could implement with your depression :)

sidewaysx wrote:
Yeah there is. quite a bit too. Thats why I don’t want to go to them for advice. They all have their own demonds ya know?

Like what?

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sidewaysx offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (22 minutes after post)

ahbap3 wrote:
it’s just not realistic. We are surrounded by hiding monsters, like, sickness, accidents, death, poverty and yet we try to fool oursevles that everything’s just fine. We have nothing but each others, and honesty is essential.

Whats not realistic?

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (25 minutes after post)

exercise for 1,it releases happy hormones
being surrounded by positive attitudes is essential too
numerous ways

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sidewaysx offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (29 minutes after post)

Yeah your right, I’ll give it a whirl :) I just am afraid it’s to late.

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (38 minutes after post)

listen,nothings ever to late lv!you just got to believe :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (46 minutes after post)

I know your right, I just have things to work on. Thank you soooooo much for being positive! It means a lot:)

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (47 minutes after post)

your welcome anytime you need me give me a shout,ok kiddo :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (12 months after post)

exactly WTF is your problem…stop being so self indulgent and give yourself a slap!…Im a single Mum with a four year old boy, his father walked out before he was born, he pays no money, I work 2 jobs to put food on the table, I cant sleep at night because I am so worried about our future, you have things to work out???…HA!…at least you have the time to ponder over your ridiculous crap…I’m sorry if it hurts but get your *** back in the real world!! and stop being so extravagent with your time…go and live your life…while you have the chance…stop dwelling on stupid BS…!!!!!!

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