Love help: Ive been with my man for nearly 5 years, we have a two and a

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Ive been with my man for nearly 5 years, we have a

two and a half year old daughter, i love my partner so much, but since old child was born i have not gone back to full time work, i have started a full time nursing course and im in my second year, but he still wants me to go back to work,alway saying i dont do any thing to help. right now i dont know if i can handle any of this anymore, i feel i cant cope with all this stress i dont feel like a mother or a student, im not doing either job right. My partner now has decided that he will sleep in the spare room, because in his words not mine im not worth it, now later during the week he will be all nice to me as if nothing has happened, its been like this for so long, he is self employed and does earn well, he said he wanted me to do this course now he seems to hate me for it. he did the same course years ago, while he was free and single im verging on 30 and have him and a child to care for, i just dont know what to do, im only one person. please someone help

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

I’d suggest telling him he can have a wife and mother, or he can have a business partner. His choice. Don’t hesitate to get out of the situation because he’s the father of your child; your daughter will be better off not growing up in a home with a manipulator who is being emotionally abusive to you.

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GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

are you sure hes not having an affair

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

I sense a very selfish streak when a man has a child with a woman, lives like man and wife, and yet refuses to honor her with the title of “Mrs.”

Now, if money is an issue, then quit school and get a part time job. But, if it isn’t, you should finish nursing school.

PERHAPS he is afraid that when you get your degree and R.N. status, you will leave him . . . because with those credentials you can get a job anywhere.

He doesn’t want to be married, and doesn’t want you to finish nursing school . . . I deduce that he doesn’t want to give you any “power” over him, such as marital obligations and a nursing degree would do.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 hours, 55 minutes after post)

guys have emotional issues then u talk to him sit him the **** down and talk to him . u have baby .. and sorry if u knt do anything . cause ur not perfect **** it no wun is and he shudnt be ******* treating u like that ur a mother and a student .. its not like , u can go to skool and take kare of a child and work . wtf is that bout ? maybe ur bf is just sick of being like that always working maybe he feels dull . give him some space but not too much .

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