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i have a boyfriend but there is this guy who i always make eye-contact with him whenever i look at him and its like i guess im dreaming but i think he stares at me and th ehting is he always looks at me like he wants to know what im doing or he wants to really know me, like a boyfriend. the thing is, i am starting to like him even though i dont know him and gosh i get hot inside just when he walks into the same room as me. and i have been maknig effort to be where he is even though i dnt kno him. but i love my boyfriend sooooo mucccchhhhhh. Help me! what tha heck is going on and how do i stop this?

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benburnsid #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

quite simply make a choice as to which would make you happier and deal with it now. waiting only gives feelings of ambiguity to your boyfriend and your other guy

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

I agree with benburnsid; don’t string along the current guy if you’re after the new guy, and don’t just wait to break up with your boyfriend until you know for sure that the new guy wants to be with you. You owe your boyfriend better than that. Would you want someone doing that to you?

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balaf0 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

the thing is..i dnt even know this guy…we have never talked before, there is just that first-look and then constantly looking at each other attraction going on…

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (15 minutes after post)

well that might indicate that if you are considering affections for him, then maybe you might not love your boyfriend as much as you think you do. just something to think about i’m not accusing you of anything. just authentic love doesnt question about new romances, or at least wouldnt post to the world about them lol

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

your so true…so how do i stop this attraction for this guy?…omg, im a screw up and i dnt intend on breaking up wth my boyfriend at all…its this guy that i gotta get rid off…or these feelings

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (27 minutes after post)

hey you didnt do anything wrong. its natural, honestly. just ignore it if you want to stay with your boyfriend, its not something to feel guilty for. if breaking up isnt an option, then just move on and learn from the experience. just enjoy the staring contest as an appraisal for your attractiveness and move on. you dont really have to do anything.

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