Im a honor roll student. I volunteer my free time with non profit organizations. I have never gotten drunk or done drugs. I am such a good teenager with so many good relations. I just got accepted into three different universities to pursue my career. Im friendly and understanding and have a great acceptance for all people.
I have a wonderful wonderful boyfriend. He loves me and I love him. Allot. We make eachother priorities, and never have a wavering moment or doubts with eachother. He is already in post secondary to become a engineer. Handsome, smart, goodlooking, well off, caring understanding… the perfect boyfriend.
Sounds like we have this wonderful little Cinderella story happening…
One night we got intamate. And we were both okay, and we both love eachother to the ends of the earth, and we were both ready.
And now in the middle of our wonderful little lives, along the way somewhere there must have been some slip up, becuase I fear that I am pregnant.
We both have such high asperations in life. We had everything going our way. Perfectly. And now this could change the course of everything.
Im extremely lost, scared, confused, and am in dire need of some sort of guidance.
as a last note, I have missed my last period, I have not taken a test yet.
The first most important thing at a time like this is for you to confide in someone you trust, even if it is a close friend. Secondly, you need to have all the information you can have as SOON as possible. I would advise a doctor rather than a test, just to avoid ambiguity. Even a school nurse might give better information that just Google or tests.
Lastly, women can miss periods due to stress (such as finals/tests). But not a reason to avoid tests/doctors.
Poster, please go to your doctor and take a test there. Talk to them, they will advise you on options to take, and also for the future advise the best kind of contraceptive for you.
Do not worry. Many women have erratic cycles. Mine didn’t become regular until I was 24! utfuelcel is right, women can miss periods for all sorts of reasons. Stess, which is then increased by the thought of a potential pregnancy, is a big reason for your body to cease up.
You should relax and think this over.
Did you or didn’t use a condom?
I doubt it broke.
I can’t believe you wouldn’t, if you’re such a smart girl.
Anyway…
Don’t freak out about it.
Your parents and your friends are probably going to be upset.
But they love you.
And if your boyfriend loves you, he’ll definitely stay with you and help you out.
He’ll also support you with your choices.
In my opinion, hey, if you are pregnant, you deal with it. You either get an abortion or you don’t. And if you choose not to, it’s not the end of the world. It will impact your life a lot but it’s not going to ruin it completely. You’ll still be able to go and live your life and do what you want, even if it takes a little longer or you need a little extra help.
Chill out.
You have options so don’t be to worried!!
Have you talked to your man? He sounds to understand.
I think stick positive with this, being worried and negitive is not going to make it better, faster or easier.
Talk to someone like a local free fpa center (doctor) for some advice.
Or find somewhere online you can email and get some info…
Babies happen. And, if your boyfriend is everything you say he is, then the two of you will get married and have the child. In my very personal opinion, no “aspiration” justifies an abortion–but that’s for you to decide.
You know what? Yes you are. You are loving and kind to others. Don’t worry about your “reputation” with this or what people will think of you. Everyone makes mistakes.
If you continue to be a good person, you’ll make your family and friends proud no matter which course your Cinderella fairytale takes.
And remember… fairytales ALWAYS have a happy ending!
Your boyfriend sounds understaning. He will definatly stick with you. but you must find out for sure if you are pregenant beacause that will sort the majority of the anxiousness. Then if you are pregenant you COULd get an abortion but i dont beleive in that. but you could raise the child as your own your family if supportive will help with the baby but dont forget testTesttest
First of all, u should know that God only put’s on u wut u can stand. 2nd if u r in a motherly way, being parents dont come with instructions, (OJT). U & ur freind will be great. KEEP ur head up, This is another chapter in ur book, it seems as if ur a great writer, so far ur a good read. Wright on
I was pregnant at the age of 15. There are lots of choices if you are pregnant. Don’t panic. I am not for abortion, just me, but there are plenty of loving couples out there who cannot have a child of their own. What a wonderful opportunity for you to share a child with them. Most will pay for your expenses and do an open adoption so that you can keep in touch with them and the child. The best of both worlds.
Best to you.
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