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I’ve broken down!

i feel like that nothing good comes out of living
.Nearly all my friends hate me
.My best friend died
.2 of my best mates are moving away
.everybody is making fun of my boyfriend for going out with me
i went from being one of the most popular people in school
to having no friends
what do i do?

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Monomi offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

Get new friends. But first you need to find yourself. Your previous poularlity has made you lose sense of who you are. You are not what other people think of you. You are not rated by how many friends you have.

Also, you might consider grief counciling for your best friend. As redundant or meaningless as this might sound, I really am sorry for your loss.

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planetthrashe offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

Life is like a rollercoaster it has its ups and downs twists and turns just hold on tight try to stay positive and things will change.

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ECK.HU.son offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

Hi, in this kind of situation a good place to start is to regain confidence in yourself and develop a loving attitude for you and others. I can sugest you an exercise that will help you to put yourself in state of love. Do it every day in order to start your day for about 15 to 20 min, it will bring change in you, people will notice it and they will be attract to you since they will feel good in your presence. This change will happen gradually if you have the discipline to practice this exercise.

Here it is: Go on Google and do a serch on “Hu song”, go to the first link at pratice this exercise. It is most efficient to do this exercise while keeping a feeling of love.

Best of luck

Eck.Hu.son

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kt.4.babii.goo.go offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

mmkayy i will try that excersise,
but i dont think it will work because everybody hates me

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kt.4.babii.goo.go offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (15 minutes after post)

and how am i ment to get new friends when the whole school hates me =[ ?

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Crisabell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

make new friends . its not the end of the world .. just be like y do u hate me?

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kt.4.babii.goo.go offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (26 minutes after post)

i no why they hate me but the reason tehy hate me isnt accurate

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planetthrashe offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (30 minutes after post)

maybe a church or other org. in your area would be an idea. and school wont last forever, most times you wont even see them after your done with school so who cares what they think,dont let them bother you and they will lose there focus on you because your not fun to hate anymore.

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kt.4.babii.goo.go offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (31 minutes after post)

but i still have 4 years with them , and for school camp in 2 weeks im in thier cabin

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1 year, 1 month ago (34 minutes after post)

Fun to hate… Wow, first time I ever heard that phrase. Don’t worry to much. It’ll blow over eventually. Maybe in the meantime you could try focusing more on academics… *SHOCKER*, I know. Or maybe put more time in for sports, a club, or an extracurricular activity.

P.S. Why exactly do they hate you?

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kt.4.babii.goo.go offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (37 minutes after post)

ermmm

a couple of days ago i went to my friend nicks house and he was being rasist about my boyfriend n i got realy mad at him the next day i went to school and told 2 of my friends dijana and erin and they were telling me to tell my boyfriend but i didnt want to tell him so he wouldnt get hurt by it and then dijana told my friend lisa and they went and told my boyfriend and he was soooo mad and was trying to get nicks number but i didnt want to give it to him untill he carmed down and then i called nick and let nabu talk and they were like in the biggest fight and everybody keeps saying i was laughing when nabu got mad but i wasnt and everybody at my school hates me because they said i was

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Monomi offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (44 minutes after post)

Wow. That’s REALLY stupid. Are you seriously in high school? Even people in my high school don’t act that childish.

P.S. This is continuing from the Anonymous comment. I accidently checked the “Reply Anonymously” box before. My bad.

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kt.4.babii.goo.go offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (46 minutes after post)

yeh,
my school is really stupid
but i really need my friends
and last time me and my mates had a fight they said if i ever do anytihng stupid again they said they will never! be my friend again and i dont no how to live without them

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kt.4.babii.goo.go offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (53 minutes after post)

well im going to go now thanks for trying to help me

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planetthrashe offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (59 minutes after post)

it makes me feel good when someone stands up for themselves,my grandfather was in hospital dying and he asked me if i would take care of his dog and i chuckeld because it made me feel good that he was thinking of his dog at a time like that and he got mad thinking i was laughing and making fun of it but i wasnt it just made me feel good

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

if you are having trouble functioning AND have suicidal thoughts, you should consider an antidepressant.
however, it is important for you to understand something about life…nothing here is permanent. now this can and probably will make you sad, but it can also lighten up any situation. yogic teachers, and buddha teach to look for what is eternal. though you are in pain, life is full of pain, and truly in pain and through pain, do we grow. this is life’s way of growing you. don’t be afraid there is a future for you that you cannot imagine. don’t be afraid, and look for ways for this to grow your compassion towards others. you can make it through this time. this time WILL pass. it’s up to you how you come out the other side. most importantly LOVE YOURSELF.

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 6 minutes after post)

Are you having thoughts of hurting yourself or someone else?

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mr guy man offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 8 minutes after post)

It will get better i have that uch stuff happen to me like once a month.

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 9 minutes after post)

While Im waiting for an answer Ill add this, soon something else will happen and all this will be old news. and just because it looks like everyone hates, things are not always as they seem to be. Im sure if you asked all involved there will be at least 1 if not more that will say they dont hate you. Have faith in the unseen sweetie :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 hours, 48 minutes after post)

With all honesty and sincerity I would have to say that getting a good grasp of the reality that Jesus loves and cares about you more than your imagination can handle, is something that can sustain you. Everything comes in seasons, and seasons never last a lifetime. Stop. Let Jesus find you in your place of brokeness. I would suggest finding a bible and reading some of Romans or John. I don’t know what you believe but this is something that is tried and true.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 hours, 52 minutes after post)

Tell someone about your problems and then they will try and sort them out, hopefully! Also, if you’ve got somone you can talk to and who yo know you trust, tell them what’s the matter. I’m sure they’ll be sorry to hear it. When you tell them, there’s no problem with having their shoulder to cry on; that’s what’s they’re there for; friends are there to care about your problems and put them right, not hate you andnot speak to you. I hope you find my advice helpful.
Yours truly and in all due respect,
Jamie.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (17 hours, 5 minutes after post)

Hi, this isn’t a reply about your post, but something else. I may sound crazzy but what’s your username on help.com? Because your story about your friends is so moving, I may add you as a friend. I will post something up where you can reply. I will show up as youtubelover99. Please don’t be put off by that; you can reply and w can be friends!

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