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When we die it all ends so whats the point.

I have tried spiritualism with a few results but in the end i just don’t believe it. So what is the point in this life, we might as well just do what we like, or finish it early.

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~LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 432 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

You really are confuse with all that point stuff arn’t you?

Somethings have a point that as clear for everyone to see, other things have a point that is only clear to you and then there are things that only have a point to themselves that on one else will ever understand.
Another thing you can call a point it reason, everything has a reason but not everything will be understood.
Life is one of those reasons that can never be understood and to somepeople there be no visible reason for it so you have to make your own mind up on what your reason is, everyone has one :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

I wish I could spell!

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

You’re right. Everyone reacts to the news of “you’re gonna die someday” differently. Even though everyone might ask the question “what’s the point in life then?” not everyone takes it literally and decides there is no point.
Each life is independent and to me, the purpose of life is to seek out happiness, do what you’d like (as you said) and find a way to be at peace with the earth. We should embrace what is good about life and celebrate all we’ve done and all we can still do!
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Morally Ambiguous JD online Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 121 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

whats the point in life, well the true point in life is its pointless. it has no direction other than the ones us as humans have come to constrain ourselves to in a social setting. so really its totally up to you to decide what the point of your life will be. for me its to enjoy myself as much as possible.

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toulsonrichi offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Titchfield, K6, GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

Big Giant head wrote:
whats the point in life, well the true point in life is its pointless. it has no direction other than the ones us as humans have come to constrain ourselves to in a social setting. so really its totally up to you to decide what the point of your life will be. for me its to enjoy myself as much as possible.

That is what i have told myself so far but to quote the 1st Terminator “In a hundred years who will care” Existance is pointless for everyone who is alive so a quick end would prevent unneeded pain

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

But I don’t want a quick end. I take the bad with the good. So pain is fine for me today if I can smile tomorrow. To each his own.
Besides, the second terminator was better anyways.

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toulsonrichi offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Titchfield, K6, GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 minutes after post)

True T2 is the best :)

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Morally Ambiguous JD online Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 121 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (15 minutes after post)

yeah the bad comes with the good, just have to ride it out, the worse a bad moment gets the better the good moments feel, think of all the things you could do in your lifetime, sure we may have to work to earn the money to do these things but they are worth it. hey why not try skydiving or go swimming with sharks something to give you a new lease of life?

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 minutes after post)

See, it’s better with a positive attitude and the ability to explore new things in life! Thanks Big Giant Head!

3Arnold.

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Morally Ambiguous JD online Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 121 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

EmilyRI wrote:
See, it’s better with a positive attitude and the ability to explore new things in life! Thanks Big Giant Head! 3Arnold.

hey foggetaboutit, just glad to help TBH.

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toulsonrichi offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Titchfield, K6, GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

So playing with death makes you feel more alive? Maybe we are subconciously drawn to death because we know that what awaits us is far better than what we have now. Makes sense.

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Winter.Rain offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (18 minutes after post)

I always thought the point of life was to give your life a point.
I could put the whole “what’s the point of life if it’s gonna end” to anything. Say movies. What’s teh point of watching a movie, it’s just gonna end. Why listen to music, it’s just gonna end. Why make money, because it’s just gonna go away.
What’s teh point asking what’s the point of stuff? The only time people start talking like that because they are lonely and bored.

The meaning of life is just to influence and change the world around you in a positive way….then when you die you become part of the earth again to help it grow and flourish. That’s a nice way to say fertilizer but you get the idea.

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Winter.Rain offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

Everyone has the same goal in life……. to be happy.

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toulsonrichi offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Titchfield, K6, GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (23 minutes after post)

Happiness is inconsiquencial, I think you are all searching for a reason to be alive where none exists. We are just animals who have been given the burden of conciousness (some of us anyway). We live then die - no reason

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (23 minutes after post)

toulsonrichi wrote:
So playing with death makes you feel more alive? Maybe we are subconciously drawn to death because we know that what awaits us is far better than what we have now. Makes sense.

In a way, yes. But I don’t believe when I would do things such as swimming with sharks, would hope to die because I think death is better than life…that part confuses me a little.
If I were to swim with sharks, I would rather hope for an unforgettable experience to share and have for the rest of my life.

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Morally Ambiguous JD online Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 121 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

life-death.. ok when you die thats it Nada, your fcuked so you better live life to its fullest while you can.

take this song for example hopefully you take a good listent to the lyrics and take something possitive away from it… please if this dont work can someone embed it?

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toulsonrichi wrote:
Happiness is inconsiquencial, I think you are all searching for a reason to be alive where none exists. We are just animals who have been given the burden of conciousness (some of us anyway). We live then die - no reason

of course there is no reason to be alive. why is tht a bad thing, surely it only frees us to do more things with our lifes? and boy trust me there are better things than dying.

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (25 minutes after post)

In a society, we don’t live then die - no reason.
What about Albert Einstein? Benjamin Franklin? Even my mom. Her reason could have been to give birth to me and my sister. And now my sister is pregnant. So she has made a pretty good point in life I think.

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toulsonrichi offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Titchfield, K6, GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (28 minutes after post)

EmilyRI wrote:
In a society, we don’t live then die - no reason.What about Albert Einstein? Benjamin Franklin? Even my mom. Her reason could have been to give birth to me and my sister. And now my sister is pregnant. So she has made a pretty good point in life I think.

That is the circular argument again. you live just to give birth so that they can give birth. Its animal nature, pointless propagation.

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Winter.Rain offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (29 minutes after post)

toulsonrichi wrote:
Happiness is inconsiquencial, I think you are all searching for a reason to be alive where none exists. We are just animals who have been given the burden of conciousness (some of us anyway). We live then die - no reason

Um I like that you read the part with the reason to live was but you totally didn’t comment on the point of living I made.

Winter.Rain wrote:
I always thought the point of life was to give your life a point.
I could put the whole “what’s the point of life if it’s gonna end” to anything. Say movies. What’s teh point of watching a movie, it’s just gonna end. Why listen to music, it’s just gonna end. Why make money, because it’s just gonna go away.
What’s teh point asking what’s the point of stuff? The only time people start talking like that because they are lonely and bored.

The meaning of life is just to influence and change the world around you in a positive way….then when you die you become part of the earth again to help it grow and flourish. That’s a nice way to say fertilizer but you get the idea.

If you can’t differentiate between a reason and a point then this conversation is pointless. Just a FYI. BUt if you want an animalistic view, our point is to reproduce and multiply.

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Winter.Rain offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (31 minutes after post)

Since you are so wrapped up in yourself now, you won’t listed to anyone and probably should close the post.

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toulsonrichi offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Titchfield, K6, GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (33 minutes after post)

fine

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Winter.Rain offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (36 minutes after post)

Oh yeah and a “point” is the same darn thing as a “reason”. it’s a synonym for goodness sakes.

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (40 minutes after post)

I didn’t mean it as for procreation purposes. I meant it like, if Benjamin Franklin’s mom decided not to have kids, would we have electricity today??

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=Adam= offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Riverton, NJ, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 56 minutes after post)

Well, the way I see it, an absence of spirituality is justification for living as long as possible? Don’t you like thinking? Don’t you enjoy being? Why would you want to end it?

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Riverton, NJ, US | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 59 minutes after post)

I live for the collective. This society we have, this structure — our art, our science, our buildings — they are beautiful. As a society we are beautiful. We are like a million different artists painting a mural together. I have been given a little corner of the mural, and intend to make it as beautiful as possible, while helping with the whole.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 hours, 56 minutes after post)

The point is to enjoy life.

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Junaid offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Eastbourne, E2, GB | 1 year ago (1 month after post)

How can we be so sure that ‘it all ends’ when we die? On whose word and authority do we believe and assume this?

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

well God is the mean little kid on the top of an anthill with a magnifying glass in his hand under the sun. His POINT for your life is to test you out. see if we’re stupid enough to destroy ourselves until we’re all gone. This may actually very well happen, so we failed the test. I think the point in life is to make the best out of it while trying to not get bored. Now would i love to be able to make the best out of my life without having to go to school, work, pay bills, and deal with emotionally deteriorating relationships till i can find “THE ONE”, but unfortunately in order to do the things you want you have to have money. Money is what makes the world go round unfortunately, otherwise, I’d travel everywhere and do nothing all day but hang out with the people i love the most. Health also is something that keeps us from doing things but that’s another story.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (6 months, 2 weeks after post)

There is no point and most likely never will be so either shoot yourself and get it over with or quit ******** about it and give yourself a goal… say like curing death or supporting the people who are trying to do it. I happen to agree with you life is currently pointless but only because it is limited in span. If the span became unlimited then things would actually start to matter (for me) so perhaps a goal for you would be to try to make life matter for yourself and others. The question you need to answer is what makes life pointless for you? and try to find ways to eliminate that pointlessness, ie fight instead of sitting around moping with a defeatist attitude.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (1 year after post)

i love living and always loved working but i am in serious financial trouble now and feel empty and alone. Also is this all there is work, pay bills, worry about health insurance, car payments and such. Its driving me crazy. I just dont know what to do, i just want to disappear.

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