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i just like this girl too much, we dont even go out at all, i mean ive gone with her and her friends, thats about it.

ive been talking to her through text, i think she knows i like her, but now i dont know what to do. i asked her out to a fancy party but unfortualalty she cant get in it, becasue there is no room in the party, so i asked if she would hang out with me later that night, and she said “we’ll see”. what do i do now?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

Hang in there and don’t give up. If you love her or think you do then in time things will work out for the best. Don’t push the situation just be who you are and dont fake or change anything for her. You guys will be togeather if its meant to be. It may take years on end but it took me 3 years to finally find the one that i love and its a very simular situation!!!

Best of luck to you!

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

ahhhhhhhh…. i cant wait, i need to do something. what, i dont know

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

ok, if i do go out with her, i would try to play it as if i was trying to attempt to be her boyfrined, so shouild i do gentalmen things, like open doors, and other things?

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Atym offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (42 minutes after post)

gentlemanly things are usually good, but most girls like a bit of a challenge, so try to be a bit more aloof and nonchalant than if you were already her boyfriend.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (46 minutes after post)

what? like what?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (46 minutes after post)

Well yeah if thats what you do in general. Don’t play out to be something or someone that you’re not. Be your self and nothing but let her like you for who you are and nothing but! Trust me, let her like or love you for who you are because you dont wanna put everything you have into a relationship if its never going to go anywhere or even the way you would like it to go. If she doesnt have these feelings for you then you never know she might in time you can push it to a extent but dont push to hard because you will turn her away! Let things happen in time.. and make sure that it is for the long haul!

Dont wait around for her either, if you find someone who is just as special to you as she it go for it. You only get to live once and not all relationships work out!

There are probably 10 thousand girls that are like her in most or just some ways!

Good luck to you hun, i hope this helped! 3

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Morally Ambiguous JD offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 150 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 hours, 38 minutes after post)

maybe she was just disappointed that she couldn’t get into the party, maybe skip the party and take her out and make her feel special?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (23 hours, 15 minutes after post)

yeah big giant. well the prob is that the party is mandatory to go, and i cant leave till 9pm i believe, so after that, ill take her out:)

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