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I had a fight

I had a fight with my two best friends although i made up with one of them and i cant seem to get over the other one.
One of my best friends had called me and accused me of sealing her sisters (my other best friend) Credit Card. And i didnt we had a intense conversation on the phone and then i hung up on her. She called me back and appoligised to me because she had been cleaning off the table and put it in her wallet because she didnt want it to go missing. Her sister then went snooping and ended up finding it in her sisters wallet. She didnt say anything when she took it back and then her sister called me and got angry because i was there the night it went missing and she knew at the time that no one else had seen it. the owner of the credit card found out that her sister took it and thought that she had stolen it from her which she really didnt. She had found it and was pretty much keeping it in safe keeping for her. After this all the owner of the credit card holder had watched her sister pick up the phone and blame me and then she decided to fess up and say that she had it and i never took it. Do i have a good reason to be mad or what? I am angry and then some! Let me know how you would react! I havent talked to her in 5 days but i really want to but on the other hand i cant belive she would do that to me! :(

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ac19 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (22 minutes after post)

You should call her and explain how you feel and that you are hurt that che accused you of taking the card and hadn’t apologized. I am sure since she is your best friend she is not calling you because she believes you are mad at her..

But you should try calling her and see how it goes.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (23 minutes after post)

You do have a right to be mad though; but don’t be stubborn

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1 year, 1 month ago (25 minutes after post)

I have already talked to her about it but it still hurt when she would knowingly turn around and do something like that to me when she knows i wouldnt do something like that!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (27 minutes after post)

I understand stand that it hurts for her to accuse you of doing something like that. But look at it like this will you be more hurt if your friendship ended over something like this; or will you hurt more if you two became best friends again.

Sometimes even though we know we are right we have to move aside and forget about somethings even though they may hurt in order to be happy

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (31 minutes after post)

I have no idea’s on what to do because when i see her i wanna hug her but when i think about it i wanna never talk to her again!?!

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ac19 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (37 minutes after post)

Yea I understand; its gonna take you sometime to get completely over it. But just make sure you do not hold a grudge against her for that because that will completely ruin the friendship.

We all make mistakes and we learn from them. Consider that a mistake on her part

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1 year, 1 month ago (41 minutes after post)

Yeah i thought that myself but i thought i would see other peoples views on all this too. Thanks for the advise, take care of your self!

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ac19 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (42 minutes after post)

No problem, I’ll try and you do the same; nice talking to you

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