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if a girl went out with me as just friends, and she

knew that i liked her, and i wanted to attempt to be a potential boyfriend, should i do gentleman and open doors, and stuff like that, any other suggestions?

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BaconByAnyOtherName offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

in either case, i dont think it would be a friendly thing to do to slam the door in her face instead of holding it.

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1 year, 1 month ago (22 minutes after post)

well obviously

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zoo_baw offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (28 minutes after post)

i tried being like ‘extra nice’ once, but if she’s just not into you then… thus, probably it would be better if you just be forward and hear it from her right from the beginning… before any hopes got too high up… strangely though, i did not really regret being that ‘extra nice’ and spending all those ‘friendly’ moments with her, just thought to myself, long afterward actually, all good things comes to an end, isn’t it?

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Morally Ambiguous JD offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 hours, 6 minutes after post)

dont be nice for her like that until your dating, dude just ask her out acting the gentleman will get you used.

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