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hiii My name is Chloe 15 .I love to sing and its always

been my dream as i wantr 2 be a famous singer when im older + iv just gotten a singing part in the school play which im verry happy about.but the thing is im soo shy around a group of big people + im scared other people will getter better p[arts + Jobs in life bcoz im afraid of wat people say.TBH i hate my life as i know i can doo really good if i try like i just saw hight school musical 3 + i want 2 do all this + be aa welll known singer ;but plzz help me have the confidence 2 do all this.Ill tell u something noone knows.i used to be soo confident whilst in middle school then i had a wieght problem i was over wieght + soo i decided 2 go on a diet .But i couldnt stop .soo much i had anerexia + i couldnt even touch food it was soo bad i was hideing food in tissies I was soo thin but i looked fat 2 me.Well a few years a go i realised one summer i was too thin + then put on wieght + now uim ok + healthy .but whilst haveing anerixa i waas soo shy + not confident i wud think people were looking at me bcoz i wassoo thin.But know im still soo shy + dnt have that attitue i used 2 have.Pls help me get it bk ,inooo i will have a briiliant future if i doo.i just need 2 believe in myself.thankyouuuuu
lots of love Chloe

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ma3m3 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

Have you tried taking voice lessons? You’ll be surprised at how much it boosts confidence and stage presence. Get a teacher who does something called masterclass. A masterclass is where all the students that take from that teacher come and sing something they’ve been working on, and the other students tell them what they did well and what they need to work on. No one is overly critical, because everyone is there to improve and to learn. It’s also a great way to improve your singing-listening to what other people do and don’t do well. And voice lessons are so fun!!! I highly recommend it!

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (56 minutes after post)

You need to control your insecurities. If they gave you the part in the play, it is not because you have a bad voice. You must have a beautiful voice. Those parts are hard to come by. Now you have to work on your stage fright. Why not practice at home? First practice in front of your mom. Then invite your dad. Then your siblings one by one. And as you keep on practicing and you see the crowd that you are singing in front of gets bigger and bigger, your stage fright will disappear gradually. If you keep on doing that with a lot of family members your fears will disappear all together. Just explain to them that this is serious stuff for you and they have to take you seriously. As far as the other issues, you must talk to a doctor about your bulimia. Or you can even talk to a dietician who will put you on a diet for you to follow. But you to follow it strictly and religiously. Don’t think negative thoughts about yourself. You are already striking yourself out without going to the plate to bat. Your life is just beginning and you are going to go far in this world. Always think that this life is full of possibilities and that you are going to accomplish all your dreams and desires. This is my wish for you: May all the clouds in the heavens fill themselves with many blessings and that the good Lord makes those clouds rain all those blessings upon you. Good luck to you!

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Nirosec offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 59 minutes after post)

Confidence and Attitude is everything, and they can be hard to build.

It’s IMPORTANT to remember, no one judges you as hard as yourself. I believe this is true for everyone, and it helps me a lot, dealing with my own dream of being a famous dancer.

I hope you get the courage to face your goals head on, and that the play you got into is super fun!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 hours, 14 minutes after post)

hi,jana here.it took me years,to realize that true beaty,comes from the inside.i have gone through personaly,the eating disorter.some of the things i do to help myself in similer problems are as follows.remember,keep your head up when you walk,don’t look away from poeple ,smile and say hello.don’t fold your arms,if you notice you are,i’ve been told it’s a sign of protecting ones self.note the action,think maybe why you are trying to protect yourself.try to know that you can look just as good in a pair of old jeans and a sweat shirt,as you do in,full out trend.i do this sometimes,keep my head up,and smile.it took me until i was 42 years old,to do something that was a life long dream,publish an article.i was scared.it might not happen the firt time .mine did but it took me decades to do what i had always dreamed.girl you have it .just smile and do it.make your dream come true.you are no different now then you were when you were at least with me,a skeliton.poeple take you for you,if not who are they to judge?you sound beatiful to me,jana

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