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i wanna marry my bf.

it was basically faint were perfect for each other and i want to marry my boyfriend.but we wanna wait till i get out of med school which is a long time from now.my mom is getting me an apartment and im goiung to be living by myself next year after high school.hes turning 18 in november and im turning 16 this monday. . .i wanna ask my mom if he could live with me but idk how.i guess i hav time for that since im a jr now. i kno im too young to be thinking about marriage but i really want to marry him and he agrees.the only thing im worried about is meeting new guys at college or just hanging out with my friends and since he lives three hrs away we only see each other on weekends.but when he does move in with me im scared well fight a lot.

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (21 minutes after post)

your 16 and want to finish medicine.That’s what you realy should concentrate on.there are so many things going to happen before you get married .Wait and see .Make your Mum smile and proud of you .You Know it is a long Journey .Concentrate on Schooling…

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Wyco offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (26 minutes after post)

IF it’s true love, you both can wait :]

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chev.jame offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (32 minutes after post)

Married in high school . . . divorced by age 22 or 23. But you two would be different, because you “love” each other, right? The terms “high school” and “marriage” should not be used in the same sentence.

People should not get married until they have lived on their own, singly and independently, for some time. Why? Because if you jump from your parents’ home into an apartment with your boyfriend, you will have completely unrealistic expectations for a relationship . . . and for life in general. And let me tell you: human beings cannot fulfill the expectations you have for a “fairy tale” existence. You will become resentful of your husband, and he will become resentful of your resentment. And then you will go your separate ways, angry that your spouse wasn’t the “knight in shining armor” or the “fair damsel” that’s the stuff of high school romances.

Oh, and add kids into the mix above . . . and you have a surefire prescription for an early divorce.

Wait and experience life for yourself. Find out what you really want out of life. Hint: what you want at age 25 isn’t what you wanted at age 16.

Hope this helps!

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (36 minutes after post)

oh im gettin marred at 24 lol.but im worried i cnt live up to my promise of marrying him if my life changes on the way there.and school is my main priorty

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Wyco offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 hours, 59 minutes after post)

If you can’t live up to the promise due to circumstances than it wasn’t meant to be right?
Again, you’ll feel the same about him no matter what if it’s true love.

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d0d1_ offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 hours, 38 minutes after post)

Life is not simple so there will be times when u find urself doubting urself. But If u love him and he loves you back, then u don’t have to worry about knowing other guy cause u guys have each other. And sometimes when u fight with each other it makes u understand about each other. Love is a never ending process, it’s not just marriage. I hope u’ll do just fine

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