ummmmm, CALL HER!!! if i was in her spot, i would be probally be waiting for you to call me. not vice versa
Aaliyah wrote:
ummmmm, CALL HER!!! if i was in her spot, i would be probally be waiting for you to call me. not vice versa
ok but idk what to say to her
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Tell her you’re sorry you lied. Then if she doesn’t scream at you or hang up, try to ask for another chance.
What if she screams at me?
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Um, if she’s that pissed, don’t call her again. Find someone else. No other choice really unless you’re O.K. with being charged as a stalker.
I agree with Monomi. I know this is going to sound harsh, but starting a relationship based on a lie is not good. I know. I did the same thing and it cost me, too.
Consider yourself lucky. You are young and you learned something from the experience.
Monomi wrote:
Um, if she’s that pissed, don’t call her again. Find someone else. No other choice really unless you’re O.K. with being charged as a stalker.
dam thats was a bit much
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Sorry, I’m brutally honest. It’s my nature.
robnc6 wrote:
I agree with Monomi. I know this is going to sound harsh, but starting a relationship based on a lie is not good. I know. I did the same thing and it cost me, too. Consider yourself lucky. You are young and you learned something from the experience.
well i dont wanna find someone else, i wanna know how to get her to give me another chance
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Monomi wrote:
Sorry, I’m brutally honest. It’s my nature.
issallgood
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Geesh! There’s only 24months difference in your ages. The fact you weren’t up front with her was the clincher.You need to say .. First off, I’m sorry I lied to you before about my age. To be honest, I was just afraid you wouldn’t give me a chance if I told you the truth, and my instincts were obviously right. We seemed to really hit it off there at first, and I just wanted to know if you would ever re-consider dating me again. If she screams, then you know your answer. If she is as nice as you say she is, then hopefully, she will at least take your request into consideration. Worse case senario, you’ll be no worse off then you are right now. You will find someone else eventually, who will want and care for you, and not worry about a number. Good Luck :)
You want her back? O.K., then be totally honest about how you feel. Then leave her alone. Give her time to think about it. Do NOT try to win her back with tons of presents or call her every day. You will seem desparate and she will run away. Oh, but don’t ignore her either. Then she’ll think you’ve lost interest.
Ultimately, there’s no fool-proof way. It’s her choice if she forgives you or not. But if she doesn’t you need to move on.
Agreed. You can certainly call or (try) to talk to her face to face, but be ready to accept the fact that she may not be receptive. You can’t “make” someone feel the way you want.
seas light wrote:
Geesh! There’s only 24months difference in your ages. The fact you weren’t up front with her was the clincher.You need to say .. First off, I’m sorry I lied to you before about my age. To be honest, I was just afraid you wouldn’t give me a chance if I told you the truth, and my instincts were obviously right. We seemed to really hit it off there at first, and I just wanted to know if you would ever re-consider dating me again. If she screams, then you know your answer. If she is as nice as you say she is, then hopefully, she will at least take your request into consideration. Worse case senario, you’ll be no worse off then you are right now. You will find someone else eventually, who will want and care for you, and not worry about a number. Good Luck :)
thank u, some1 finaly understands that 2 years aint that big a deal!!! yea she just turned 19 and i turn 17 next month. thanks for the advise thats excactly what i was lookin for..
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tell her that you believed that she would not have given you a chance if all she knew about you was that you were 16. A lie in this situation felt necessary to get her to know you so she could honestly judge you. Then tell her natuarally you were embarrassed for having lied, so you tried to let her just go. But seeing her today.. so beautiful.. and also, now you know, so sweet and fun.. that you felt compelled to call and ask if she, indeed, did enjoy the time with you.
oh.. sorry took me so long to write that, I didnt see Seas.
Requiem in D minor wrote:
oh.. sorry took me so long to write that, I didnt see Seas.
downtoday wrote:
issallgood
yes i did just quote myserlf
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youre cute cute cute. CALL HER
myself*
Requiem in D minor wrote:
youre cute cute cute. CALL HER
why thank u :] i will
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