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I felt sick when I woke up. But that really has nothing to do with it. I was feeling weird all day. Then I snapped out of it, and felt good and awake, mentally, but my stomach still hurt. Not that much in the story. Then my cousin came to the farm and we were running around and I felt better. But then all the sudden I felt like poop again. My aunt and uncles friends and their kids came to the cider mill and we were kinda hanging out with them. But then I got like all depressed suddenly started to like tear up. I wanted to talk to my aunt but I really didnt know what was going on with me. So then I walked away and my cousin left. My aunt and uncles friends were still there(they are not my cousins parents..my aunt and uncle I mean) So then it started to rain so I took my dirtbike out in the orchard and rode. Then I was throwing the softball into the net for like 3 hours…and it was pitch black out for like half of that time. I wanted to badly to talk to my aunt but I really didnt know what was wrong. I wanted to just like walk up to her and hug her. Thats all I needed. But Ive never hugged her so that wouldve been kinda awkwarddd. Was I jealous of their friends or something?? I dont think I was though. So I dont know what was going on…

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (27 minutes after post)

Hmm…are you a youngish teenager? Because it sounds like pmt or hormones to me…they can play crazy on your emotions-especially like that. Its worth keeping an eye on though, do you get like this often or is it a one off time?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (31 minutes after post)

Yea..Im 14.This hasnt ever happened. My cousin and I were talking to my aunt then they came..and were sorta rude. Then they were fine. So I dont know if that has anything to do with it…

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (36 minutes after post)

Maybe… It could be linked to your period, its quite commen that you can go through phases linked to it where for a few days you can be offended easily and everything makes you want to cry and even silly things on the tv make you want to cry. Then you can go through stages where you are feeling very confident and quick at answering back…these are just examples but there are loads of things.

I think its most likely that its linked with your hormones, especially because of your age..so your just growing up :)

If it becomes really bad or really bothers you then you may be able to talk to the docs about it but Its too soon to worry about that. Its good to talk about things though and be open, that way you aren’t left with things unanswered. Is there someone else you could talk to about the situation apart from your aunt?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (41 minutes after post)

Yea. There are many people. Its probably pms…bleck! Yet again..it happened after I was running around and felt sick again. Like after that I felt like I was going to pass out and couldnt stop shaking…so maybe it had to do with being sick. My cousin kept urging me to run around some more. Maybe I was just getting stressed..I dont know thoughhh. Im not usually the hormone-y person. Like normally Im smiley and lalala-ish. But If I dont have a smile on my face, people ask whats wrong. And they always assume something is wrong…soooo yea. Maybe I was just loosing it for a bit. Im ok now. Now Im dreading to go to work tomorrow morning( I work over theree.) Normally I cant wait..but now..uh. I dont know. Should I apologize for my behavior to my aunt? Just be like sorry about yesterdayy..there was too much stuff going on and everybody expects me to do everything? Like would that be okk?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (46 minutes after post)

Maybe you could say to her you were feeling a bit unwell and you had stuff on your mind so you thought you were a acting a bit weird and if you ofended anyone your sorry…something like that I guess?

If you felt a bit faint and sick you could also be a little aneamic, also women have a lower iron count when its their period and this can effect some more than others. I was always fine but my best friend when I was young used to actually faint each month, all she did was ate more red meat and took iron vitamins/suppliments around that time of the month to keep the blood count up. If it makes you feel a bit weak or faint or dizzy it might be a good idea to work on your diet around that time by adding iron into it a bit more just to be on the safe side?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (54 minutes after post)

Its never happened before. We had an extreme change in weather today and that always affects me..ironic considering how I want to me a meteorologist..haha. Ive also been sick for like month..but the stomach thing is new..I see how it goes tomorrow

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

Yep keep an eye on it. You can always come back here to ask for some more help or you can see the doc, or hopefully it will be okay :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

Thankkkk youu :]

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

Anytime :)

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