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Help me…

…i miss my grandma. she’s gone and i love her to much to let her go…..

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

No one can help you. It takes time.

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madelinem5910 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

I don’t know what to do either… my older brother died and we were really close..
Life goes on and you have to live with it….. there is nothing you can do but remember her…..thinkin if times woth her will help.. thats what i do… just stay strong…. just remember her always… always…..

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MF_Dancer offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (34 minutes after post)

things like this take time.

i kno it seems like the pain will never stop
but i can promise it will

and just keep her in your memories, think of funny stories, it might make a tear fall at the moment, but it will put a smile on your face rather than a frown.
im sorry for your lost
keep strong
:D

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lazy offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (38 minutes after post)

she’s gone, you miss her now but it’s really just as if she never really isn’t there, you always have her with you; her thoughts and smiles and everything, u get to keep those forever.

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Lilmizmoore offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (42 minutes after post)

Hi!

I lost my dad earlier this year, and my advice to you is to allow yourself the chance to grieve. What helped me was to journal my thoughts in a notebook. I even wrote many letters to my dad about my feelings, even though he could not actually read it, somehow in a weird spiritual way, I felt him close to me as I wrote.

You never have to let her go. You can always keep her close to you in memories and even in any personal things of hers, perhaps jewelry, a blanket, anything that would give you those warm fuzzy memories of her.

I wish you all of God’s comfort and even though it does not seem like it right now, things will get better over time. I wrote a poem about my dad if you want to read it, just click my link here.

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soundefekt offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

this is a tough one, the memories of you and your grandmother bring joy to you, the amount of love that you have for your grandma really shows how much she loved you. Just food for thought, this is just one of life’s way of showing you to become a stronger person. She will be watching over you. what doesnt kill you only makes you stronger. stay strong, its hard.. but try and keep that chin up, cause you know your grandma would rather see you happy then sad. k.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

I lost my grandpa a year ago. He was my most favorite relative. WE used to play cards and do so much together. I miss him so much, even though he had lived in India, so I couldn’t visit him often. At first, when I was told, I thought the person was making a joke. It was really sad, but I’m happy that I know that he was one of the kindest men ever, and everyone was there to comfort my wife when he passed on. He has never really left me. I can still see his face in my mind, hear his voice, and even though I might feel really sad sometimes, I am happy to have had him as my grandpa.

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nicolekayla2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (9 months, 1 week after post)

Just rember this one thing….

You will see her again when you die

But I have to break it to you, you will only might if you are a christan and if your grandma is a christan too

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