Day help: are we all confused or is it just me? - Help.com

is it possible you’re taking life far too seriously, and you’ve forgotten how to relax and have fun?

It happens as you get older. You begin to accumulate more and more responsibilities and don’t really know how to deal with them. You have to prepare yourself for what ever responsibility or task is thrown your way.

What’s a guru?

Some days are like rollercoasters, others I can’t remember much of. I get anxious, I get scared, I’m so tired but I can’t sleep, I smile when I watch That 70’s Show, I cry because I don’t know what to say, I forget to do the things I should, I pray for people and I feel sad, I count if I stil have enough pills for a lethal overdose, I feel guilty and alone, I listen to my music and feel overtaken by it/then I collapse, I sleep a few hours/no dreams, I make lists in my mind, I feel trapped in my body, I feel happy when I think if my dead grandfather, I’m angry at myself.. the cycle keeps going, breaking it is hard but I know I have no choice.

I guess I’m a little confused but I’m learning how to live, to be alive as the person I desire to be. To be alive.

i feel just the same.
i long for the good old days too. when nothing but music and sunshine mattered.
and the only worry was homework.

but mate, with all the pressures everywhere.
everyone telling you something different about what you should eat, what you should wear, where you should shop, what you should recycle, how you should exercise, how much you should drink, who you should vote for….the list goes on…

its no wonder we get confused.

take a breath and a step back.
focus on what YOU want
even if its not the same as what you used to want.
because like it or not, we will always want something else, no matter what we’ve already got.

me and my 2 best mates once a week go to ov our houses reguardless off whats going on in any our lifes we forget it all foe one night get a few cheesy movies some junk food (despite we are all on diets) a few bottles ov wine we talk about good times we have had past holidays funny things we have all done it really works and the next day in spite of the massive hangover i have i feel really good id recommend it to anyone