Love help: Okay here is my story. - Help.com

Devil_on_Earth is right. YOu are way too young to have your life revolve around marriages. It seems like both were made in a frenzy, without even thinking or planning. He wanted to marry you and he agreed to get you out of your “nest” so now it is partly his responsibility to stick with you. Just be calm and nice to him, don’t fight. Tell him you want to find a job, to help you out with that. Or you want to finish your college. You might want to move back to your hometown to finish your college. Remember you are married so him finding someone else would be considered cheating. He has responsibilities towards you, whether he lives in another state or in the same home with you. He cannot just continue living like a single man. Did he know about your credit and financial difficulties before he married you? Legally that means he is also responsible somewhat for that credit. If he didn’t know it, he is not responsible. So instead of panicing of him finding somebody else, try to think of your own future and finish college or find a job. He has to help you.

i think you’re an idiot…why would you jump into marriage right after you got divorced…and if he’s treating you badly then walk then walk away, if he’s acting this way now how do you think it’ll be after you’re married? Its just going to end up in another divorce…you people take marriage so lightly, divorce has become as simple a thing to do as breaking up with a boyfriend. You are way to young to aready have two marriages under your belt. sweetie THINK before you act…your education and career are more important than men.

It’s not very smart to give up everything you had and move to your “boyfriend’s” apartment. He can just walk away with no repercussions . . . except you might have a case under “promissory estoppel,” i.e., you gave up such and such based on his promise . . . and it was to your detriment.

Here’s one option for you: join the military. You can rebuild your credit and get the GI Bill for education. It would sure beat groveling around this so-called “boyfriend’s” feet.

ok so yeah i moved out here for him but he did beg me to stay before we moved to stay and finish my last semester of college but i was so scared that when he got home he would find somebody else that i dropped everything. and no he didnt know about my credit until it was too late and now he is way stressed. and i think i may have pressured him by asking if he loves me why wont he marry me. I am now in counseling for a need of commitment due to my father abandoning me at a young age any more help would be great thank all of you !!!!