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You are not an idiot, first of all. You are loved. That’s more than a lot of other people can say. We will help, if you are willing to let us.

,you said that you had no friends or family but then you said that you’re in a loving relationship. so you see you do have people you can turn to, you’re not alone.

please dont be so down on yourself.theres always other ways of helping other than trying to kill yourself!
now tell me whats wrong,why so downhearted??

Well…you’ve love, and it’s always something worth living for…

Don’t you want your love to be happy? What would he/she do if you suicided?

Also, just tell him/her..a good relationship is based on communication, and I’m sure that he/she will be more than happy to help you..

Its difficult to tell someone that you love that you’re that down. Maybe say that you were on this site? Then say you posted… Just try to build it uyp gradually… If they love you they will be there for you.

Anyway…I’m curious…who are you?

I’ve a feeling that I know you…o.0

What can we do to stop you?

I don’t think you should die.

just tell them u love em it will make u happy and them

i ♥ love julio ! wrote:
techniacally you do but u dont =/

Then I want to know…

I told you that I wanted to know everything about you, that you could talk to me, that you could trust me….don’t keep things to yourself, not when you’re talking to me…please…

#1 cause of depression is denied or repressed anger at something in your life, and the best way to get rid of it is to confess it; that’s why Christians have confession. If your loved one truely loves you, then they will be able to forgive you for something everyone does from time to time; everyone gets angery at some point.

It will be ok! You are a valuable person and you are able to recognize that you are in need of help. Call the help line in your area and talk with people. Being depressed is not a sign of weakness or being a bad person. It is and illness just like breaking you arm or getting a cold. You need to get help and you’ve taken the first step. You are unique and important and you can get better. Have the person you mentioned in your post dial the number! NOW! you will be ok and will beat this but you have to get the ball rolling. YOU can do it! I did - you can to!

if you need help finding the local help number just post you zip code and i will find the number and post it for you ………

Anonymous wrote:
ls14

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your 14?

sgri600 - You cannot ask for personal information on this website, not zip codes anyway. Just letting you know.

sgri600 wrote:
if you need help finding the local help number just post you zip code and i will find the number and post it for you ………

No need sgri600. I’ve already researched that. http://help.com/post/210790-hotlines-…

You live in Leeds, correct?

tell us whats wrong lv

Just let it out sarah…

You can’t keep it inside forever…

Please…I beg you, I want to help you..

Anonymous wrote:
Yeah i cnt julio im sorry

Not again sarah…don’t do it again…please…

Do it for me…please..

i ♥ love julio ! wrote:
im trying my hardest but i just cant this time

You can!

YOU CAN!

Sarah…don’t think about it, just say it…say it!

It’ll help you…you’ve to move forward!

sarah,whats wrong

what are you angry about? what makes you upset about your life?

Please sarah…

I need to know it…just talk to me…please…just tell it…

I love you

we all have problems, we all make huge mistakes, there’s nothing to be gained by hiding it, but there’s everything to be gained by sharing it. I wouldn’t be helping anyone on this site if i didn’t have some experience with my own deppressions and my own HUGE mistakes, and it’s because of these problems that I can now even attempt to help anyone.

There is nothing to be ashamed of about feelings, or about being hurt.

Anonymous wrote:
Yeah i cnt julio im sorry

I live in the UK, is there anything I can do for you? How old are you? I’ll get you some numbers.

she’s 15

Ok ring 08457 90 90 90 which is the samaritans.

or 0800 11 11 - thats childline and its free and it wont even show up on the phone bill. You can talk to someone and they can just listen, or they can help you. Don’t go through this alone, talk to someone.

Not only can childline help you there and then on the phone but if you WANT them too, they can help you to start seeing a counciller or something else. They can arrange aftercare, its not a quick fix but they can be there for you.

If not ring “999″ and tell them, they can send the crisis team out to you right now. I’ve had them come out to me and they are absolutely amazing. There are plenty of things they can do.

Try it… For 2511… You both deserve to be happy together

jo @ samaritans . org

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Kaitey wrote:
Try it… For 2511… You both deserve to be happy together

Thanks..

You can do anything you want to do as long as you try hard enough.

What can’t you do, Sarah? I’m not sure what you mean.

Part of peoples healing begins when they tell others. you need to invite your friends, that what they are for!! please do it now, and or call someone locally. ! you are not thinking straight, locical. are you on any meds? and what thoughts made you want to go out the window?

dont think about it long, just type it and send

Please, just talk to us, Sarah.

Please get the help you need. Remember today might seem horrible and terrifying, but you just don’t know what tomorrow will bring. Sometimes it feels like no one understands us or can help us, but people can only help you if you let them in. What is it that is upsetting you so much? The teens years are difficult, but life does get better as you get older, I promise! Try to remember you are not alone, that there are so many who feel alone, but we are only as alone as we choose to be. No one can save you, no one, but you! We are often way tougher on ourselves than others are and we so often fail to see our own beauty, which is what can create our misery. You are not alone! You are not alone! You are not alone! You are not alone!
You are beautiful!

your overwhelmed, we all get like this. me included. Im sure its happened b4 and if you think about it, it passed, and this time it will too. Just hang on,

im so sorry youre feeling like this. i can relate a lot because ive been through that as well. but just remember… life gets better. i know that seems impossible right now but it does! it might take a while but you gotta just keep fighting and not look back. the past is over, you cant change anything about it and the future isnt here yet. so just focus on the moment.
thats so great that youve found someone =) julio’s a cool guy!

Sarah. Have you taken anything already? The pills I mean.

you know how when its over and you look back you thought it would not end then you feel silly that you ever thought that in the first place, this is the same, you will see that again if you hold on ,everytime you hang on and push through you get stronger and stronger.

How many?? and of what?

I dont know your story, anything about you, except you like football. what do you think your problem is from? So we can get to the root of it and stop it for good

I read your post which explains why your are feeling this way. Your feelings are normal given the circumstances, but you deserve better. I am not sure what you did that you think cause your mother to die, but you were just nine years old. Accidents happen and sometimes it is nobodies fault. We all make mistakes that sometimes hurt those we love, but you have to forgive yourself. You mother would not want you to carry all this pain. You should live your life in honor of her memory, not let her death keep you from having a good life. Dieing won’t bring her back, nor will it changed what happened. You deserve to be happy and successful. Everyone dies, which is why it is important to live the life you have. Your mother would want better for you. Forgive yourself!

*hugs Sarah and whispers this too shall pass*

Who is joshie?

How old is he?

im so sorry about your mom…thats really tough. but she wouldnt want to see you die over her. you have so much of your life left to live! youre 15 right? (same age as me :D) things will get better! i know what it feels to wanna end your life, but looking back im so glad i didnt.

oooo you have a son? awwwh! how old?

tomorrows another day sweetie. things change all the time, you get through this day you got it beat.this day will not come again for another year ,by that time you will be more ready for it.What will you miss the most if you go? your son? your boyfriend? there are people who cant have kids, and are longing for a chance at having someone to love them. You have at least 2

What would happen to him if his mum died too? He already doesn’t have a grandmother.

Is there someone who can care for him for a while? Joshie? so you can go get help

awwwwwh! i love babies :D lol

but he’ll stop crying! it probably seems like he wont but he cant cry forever! make him your reason to live… what would he do if you died? you lost your mom so you know how it feels… he wont grow up with a mom. he needs you so much.

life does get better okay? i promise you.

in order to play football you have to endure a lot, and you become stronger for it . its the same thing with life.think about it.

http://www.thenewparentsguide.com/bab…

this describes how you can help him teeth

Sarah. Have you eaten anything since you took the pills?

just hang on till you had a nights sleep..can you at least promise us that? Just a couple hrs

hey sarah… quick question. have you heard of the orgainzation “to write love on her arms”?

OHhhhhh, thank you, WHEW!

Has your son eaten? You should give both of you some nourishment.

{Felicity} wrote:
just hang on till you had a nights sleep..can you at least promise us that? Just a couple hrs

They also tell you to sleep =P

2511 ♥ you! wrote:

{Felicity} wrote:
just hang on till you had a nights sleep..can you at least promise us that? Just a couple hrs

They also tell you to sleep =P

what?

You haven’t slept?

{Felicity} wrote:

2511 ♥ you! wrote:

{Felicity} wrote:
just hang on till you had a nights sleep..can you at least promise us that? Just a couple hrs

They also tell you to sleep =P

what?

She knows lol

yeah you really should get some sleep. its the best thing.

do you write at all? cause that can help relieve issues, just by getting them out y’know?

think about the things you will miss out on.the earth, your home; for the wide sky and the blessed sun, for the ocean and streams, for the towering hills and the whispering wind, for the trees and green grass, your senses by which we hear the songs of birds, and see the splendor of fields of golden wheat, and taste autumn’s fruit, rejoice in the feel of snow, and smell the breath of spring flowers.

All this beauty

For each new dawn is filled with infinite possibilities for new beginnings and new discoveries. Life is constantly changing and renewing itself. In this new day of new beginnings all things are possible. We are restored and renewed in a joyous awakening to the wonder that our lives are and, yet, can be. think ahead a little, your sons first day at school, you having the job of your dreams, a wedding, his graduation etc…DONT take YOU out of the picture

αиgєl♥ wrote:
yeah you really should get some sleep. its the best thing. do you write at all? cause that can help relieve issues, just by getting them out y’know?

She’s also telling you to write =P

I’m not alone!

A bit is probably not enough. First lets concentrate on Joshie. Okay?

2511 ♥ you! wrote:

αиgєl♥ wrote:
yeah you really should get some sleep. its the best thing. do you write at all? cause that can help relieve issues, just by getting them out y’know?

She’s also telling you to write =PI’m not alone!

lol im guessing youve told her all these things as well then? :P

You love your son, right? You want what’s best for him?

Can you make us one more promise please, promise you will stay here with us until you need to go to bed or feel better of go get help?

αиgєl♥ wrote:

2511 ♥ you! wrote:

αиgєl♥ wrote:
yeah you really should get some sleep. its the best thing. do you write at all? cause that can help relieve issues, just by getting them out y’know?

She’s also telling you to write =PI’m not alone!

lol im guessing youve told her all these things as well then? :P

Pretty much…lol

{Felicity} wrote:
Can you make us one more promise please, promise you will stay here with us until you need to go to bed or feel better of go get help?

southern_comfort wrote:
You love your son, right? You want what’s best for him?

αиgєl♥ wrote:
yeah you really should get some sleep. its the best thing.

do you write at all? cause that can help relieve issues, just by getting them out y’know?

Maximina wrote:
*hugs Sarah and whispers this too shall pass*

evansent2008 wrote:
please dont be so down on yourself.theres always other ways of helping other than trying to kill yourself!
now tell me whats wrong,why so downhearted??

Kaitey wrote:
Its difficult to tell someone that you love that you’re that down. Maybe say that you were on this site? Then say you posted… Just try to build it uyp gradually… If they love you they will be there for you.

As you can see, there’s a lot of ppl who care to what happens to you, it isn’t just me…and some of them told you the same things I did =P

i ♥ love julio ! wrote:
i promise julio uve stuck it in my head

♥

smile. follow your dreams.
take it day by day, make things better.
you have more control than you realize.

tomorrow could be the best day of your life

optimismiles wrote:
smile. follow your dreams.take it day by day, make things better.you have more control than you realize.tomorrow could be the best day of your life

Agreed…

The formula for a happy life…

Is Joshie still crying or is he more content now?

Sorry. Don’t know what that is. Calf’s liver oil?

If it was recommended by the pediatrician it would be okay, yes. Nothing else though please.

Are you holding him or is he laying down?

Give him some calpol. It’s alright. Hold him until he falls asleep then lay him down to rest.

Are you still breast feeding him also?

Thank you for your promise :) Good decision. Is this Joshies first tooth?

I cant tell if your online, )(Page problems)argh,. keep us posted sweetie

Are you still there Sarah?

i ♥ love julio ! wrote:
hes 3 and a half month old now

Hiya hun, have you been to the drs about your emotional problems etc? Because its very common for women who have just had a baby? What kind of things have you done so far?

ru ok now?

She was banned =/

Why?

Dunno…
Ask Mas1st

Nice to see you angel.

i ♥ love julio ! wrote:
im bk everyone …,, dunt no how long for though

yaaay! thats awesome! =)

I was calling the poster angel. Even though you are too angel.

cajun2 wrote:
I was calling the poster angel. Even though you are too angel.

yeah lol i know :P (that you were calling the poster angel…) haha

I’m glad your back; this whole banning issue confused me quite a bit

I’m sorry that your feeling so bad. Somethimes it seems as though its never going to get better. But PLEASE think that it will and think of all the people that love you and they really do. It will get better.