guy help: i am very nervous about doin anithing with by new boyfriend - Help.com

maybe you just aren’t ready, its only been a week

You’ve only been together a week, if is meant to happen it will, if not it won’t. Maybe you two are better off just as friends!

A week 7days is not long at all. Wait until you do feel comfortable. a strong friendship should really be established first.Get to really know one another. acting too quickly before your ready can only result in desaster. Take your time.. So much to a relationship then on a physical level… you’ll be hlad if you wait till your ready :)

but were are nothing as friends and i have never had some1 make me so happy as he does just being in the same room as me

take your time and when it happens everything will turn out fine

Make him wait! Play hard to get. What do u mean you’re nothing as friends. If you’re nothing as friends, u can’t be anything as lovers!! How old are u? 15, I’m guessing?

i am 16 and when i say we are nothing as friends i meen when we are just friends we dont talk and neva see each other because we dont see point in tryin 2 meet up because most of the time i am at the other side of glasgow from him

so if he makes you so happy why can’t you just enjoy each others company? You don’t need to take this to the next level so quickly. the more you get to enjoy each other as friends the more at ease you’ll be. no hurry is there? if he cares about you he’ll be happy just to be in your presence.Respect is everything. Not rushing into things in a mere week. Just give things some time.. You don’t want to be known as being fast and desparate.Not that he would, but I’d still let some time go by before you take things to another level. He’ll respect you alot more really :)

If you can’t even talk, then for sure I would wait. You have to establish a bond through friendship first. otherwise what do you have in the end? just an act that will be forgotten perhaps and easily dismissed :(

i supose a week is not a long time but i got in with the rong croud of people when i was younger and i would be with a different person every night during the week and i would b sleeping with a different person every weekend and i just recently got out of that croud when romours got spread but i still feel like evrithing is goin to slow because of what i was like for 3 yeers

Having the feelings that you do is normal for a girl of your age. It sounds like you have been physically active far beyond what is normal for your stage in growing up, but you can get back on track easily. Early romance is a bit of a “feeling out” process where you are infatuated with someone. You don’t know why, nor do you know much about them, but there is a strong attraction.
This is normal, and healthy.
The right boy will feel the same.
Take this opportunity to go out in groups with him, phone or text, and learn about one another.
Your emotions need time to catch up with your body, and when they do it will be very fulfilling.
Remember that there is no rush, and if you feel pressured, he doesen’t care about you the way you would wan’t him to, and is more concerned with his own needs than with you.
This will give you an idea whether you are with the right person.
Hope this helps.