friends help: hii there, my name is Hannah & im sick of my life, im sick - Help.com

what exactly is going on in your life right now making you hate it so much??

Why do you think you are stupid??

well dont be desperate because no one will take you seriously

oh and dont runaway from home because of your problems at school and such..besides you wont have no money and no where to go

well if you want to get along better at school,
just be cool and relax. i dont know what to say about your friends,why do you hate them?

erm..what would be your ideal friends then

I think that’s the first time I heard someone refer to their friends as feral.

In any event, if you’re not happy with your friends, let them know…and if that doesn’t work, perhaps looking for some new friends (I know..it’s a lot harder than it sounds).

As far as school…it sucks. Everyone knows school sucks. They’re mostly all bucket courses (fill the bucket, poor it out on the paper and forget it all later). Try not to stress about it…and if you find you can’t stop stressing, try to do something relaxing before or after you study. It’ll help ease the tension.

Also a tip…if you study right before bed, and then re-read what you did at night in the morning, it’ll actually help you remember it a little better (Or at least…it did with me…)

Running away isn’t the answer. Running from your problems at all isn’t the answer, because it won’t solve them. You have to face them and they’ll go away. Besides, running away would only hurt your parents and friends, it wouldn’t solve any of your problems…

The first thing to do…is just calm down. Get a clear mindset and look over your options. If you seriously think something is wrong like depression or anxiety, let your parents know in earnest. If they don’t care, talk to a counselor at school.

My oldest sister ran away. She was gone for 2 days, and the police got involved. It was a big mess, and it would of all been avoidable had she just been open about how she felt.

I normally don’t give such laissez-faire advice to younger people…but if the system is broken, there’s no use worrying about it. Are you at a boarding school or something? If so, I’d fill out the forms to talk to a councilor. House Leaders…are like RA’s in college…so I wouldn’t expect much help there. Just try to be calm about it and don’t let too many things get to you. Remember, in the end you have yourself…and you are who you allow yourself to be. You can’t control or change other people by force, but you can control and change yourself.

Well…most councilors will ask you some questions to try and get a good idea and break the ice. I still strongly recommend you talk to one, I did when I was a couple years older than you, and it helped a bit. The most important thing though, is to not stress about too many things. You’re young…trust me, you have your whole life to stress about things. I say if you’re trying your best in school…there shouldn’t be a reason to ask for more. See…I’m a little older, and the mentality then was always “Do your best…and if your best isn’t good enough, you’d better do better” Which…I never liked. It’s not right to demand so much of people…so just do your best.

Another note, I’d say have a talk with your parents. Let them know how you feel. If they don’t care…tell them what you think about them not caring. Eventually it’ll get through to them…even if they are a little thick-skulled ^^;

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