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please dont kill or hurt urself i kno u feel down and alone but its not worth it im sure theres plenty of ppl who love you and ir not you need to love urself

at some point life can be hard and stuff to go on , but life never stays the same but forever changes casuse of motion everything is in motion and everything is changing , life maybe hard now , but it will get better…

what you really seem to need is to rerealize what you’re worth, a person putting up with so much pain is definitely no failure, but actually a hero, you should start thinking differently of yourself and that is gonna need some work from you to sort out the deep true reasons why all this is happening to you in the first place, for which therapy is the place. gl

you are not a screw up or a mistake i have done so many things that make me ashamed but dont give up hope things will get better you will see just hold on and life can be very hard at times but people get through it and i know there are people out there who love you and hate to see you hurt like this you will get through it and in counseling dont hold anything in i found once i went to counseling i felt better it was good to have someone to talk to and im sure it will help you to

I feel the same way pal. You are not a lone. Just never give up tomorrow. I swear there are people out there that can help.

“I’ve done so many horrible things.”
The fact is that we all have. That’s why Jesus supposedly said “Even you _who are evil_ can do good things for your children.”. The fact is no one is good at heart - everyone’s bad. But God is willing to not just forgive us for our evil natures but make us deserving and worthy. Anyone like you, that feels inadequate or sinful, is already on the path to forgiveness - all you need to do is remember that God loves you and sent Jesus so that we can be forgiven.

Thanks Zebras,

zebras.that.are.clev wrote:
“I’ve done so many horrible things.”
The fact is that we all have. That’s why Jesus supposedly said “Even you _who are evil_ can do good things for your children.”. The fact is no one is good at heart - everyone’s bad. But God is willing to not just forgive us for our evil natures but make us deserving and worthy. Anyone like you, that feels inadequate or sinful, is already on the path to forgiveness - all you need to do is remember that God loves you and sent Jesus so that we can be forgiven.

yah people care! and no.1 in the list shld be u urself!
love urself first. don’t expect others to give it for u.
acceptance is the key. then soon u realized that indeed others do care.

~cuddles~

I’m not sure what to say. I love your avatar. Please hang in there for me. If you want to talk more in depth about why you cut yourself and why you are depressed we’re open ears >.O

This website blows me away. I am constantly amazed at the people and posts here. I’ve seen your replies in a few posts Lacy… and here I am thinking wow… this woman has it together! Then I see this post…and I realize how old you are and dang girl - you got it going on! But your post here blows me away… I never would have suspected.

I’m really sorry your mom said that to you. That was heartless. I’m glad you’re going to a counselor. Open your heart and mind to them if you can. I really does help. Your at a tough age Lacy… give yourself some time and certainly start giving yourself some credit… ’cause from what I’ve read, you’re pretty smart and wise!

Bright blessings ~ Richard

yes… that’s true Amanda; thank you

Hi… Um i know how you feel… I have practicly the same problem just w/ my dad and he just doesn’t like m cutting…. i’m 3 years younger and i hate school… I have friends i guess but i hve to pretend to act like someone i’m not… It’s hard and i’ve tried to tell people about how i feel but they don’t care at all… So i want you to know that… buutt what ur mom said was well i know how it feels i’m sorry abouut that and my ranting but just thought u should know i have basicly the same problem!

HI,

School wont be forever,
and the lessons this life has in store for us is different for everybody.

It is good to question your existance!

People make mistakes , thats what helps us grow.
nothing you have done in your life is any worse than things that are and have already happened.
Acknowledge your mistakes or woes and break the cycle.
Its good to seek help from council.

Life is not easy and I am truly sorry to hear your having a bad time right now.

Things will get better.
What helped me was lists and writing.

You have already reached out through writing and its a great start.

Make lists of all the good things you have done aswell.
Dont just consentrate on the negative.

In the grand scale of things if you can hang in there untill you finish school you can begin your life on your terms.

Educate yourself emotionally as well as through your school work.
as life is sometimes very long and there is a wealth of wonderful things in life waiting for you to discover but you need to the tools that educations offers to take advantage of these opportunities.

Love and light