friends help: my friends are suddenly cold and distant. - Help.com

talk to them about it.

that’s the best thing to do…take one of them aside and ask if you’ve done anything to offend them.
see if there’s a reason behind it.

have you done anything 2 months ago? anything major? gossip based on misinformation can do this.

It’s been almost two months since you made friends with them? Or two months since they started acting weird?

Talk to them directly - preferably one at a time. If that does not work then send a letter (or an email), to one of them describing how you feel and apologizing for anything that you might have done to hurt their feelings.

Perhaps your friends were told something about you that is not true. See if you (or someone you trust), can find out what is going on.

Talk to them.

During the first two months of freshman year, you tend to connect with everyone, since you have not yet formed natural groups based on your major, classes, extracurricular interests, etc.

Is it possible that your friends are just so caught up in clubs, fraternities, and school projects that they simply don’t have as much time for you as before?

What about you? Don’t you have a new set of friends evolving around your interests, major, and the activities you’re engaged in?

I agree. Once college life sets in after a couple of months, some people get so serious about it (the same you would when you get your first full time job) that it consumes all of their time and energy. They probably don’t really mean much by it, but there are lots of things on your mind when you start thinking alot about your future. So some people tend to become alot less social and friendly or whatever because they’re so busy trying to figure things out. Don’t worry! :)

And still, if it’s continuing to bother you, ask the closest friend of that group if anything is wrong. They’re probably just very distracted by college stuff.

How’d it turn out?

before i had the chance to ask them about it, they became “normal” with me again. i was probably thinking too much. thank you all!!

When did you talk to them? You guys saw each other and it was ok or what?