girlfriend help: i recently got back together with my girlfriend we where broke up for awhile. - Help.com

If you’re bickering about who was worse, then you don’t have a relationship worth saving.

I don’t think wither is any worse than the other. If one of you had been going around sleeping with everyone you got a chance to, than it might be different, but in my opinion one person while you are both split up is nothing to be worried about for either person.

If you like sloppy seconds after being first, then you are in a whole lot of trouble. Both of you are in need of psych help. I would not take back a girl who has been with somebody else and she should not take you back after being with somebody else yourself. You both need to move on to different people! What’s wrong with you?

Relationship, shmelatioship, it’s all the same. Both of you slept with somebody else and both of you need to move on! Stay broken up for both of your own goods! Yuck! I would not touch a girl who has been with somebody else and she should do the same! As tough as it sounds, it’s the only truth and sound advice you are going to get from anybody who comes to your post! Sorry! Bite the bullet and break up!

Stay apart look for a relationship elsewhere, to many trust issues.

Well, you weren’t together when both of you had experiences with other people, so neither of you can throw stones and it’s not justifiable for either of you to do that in hindsight, once you got back together.

Sounds like a stalemate situation. Either you both are prepared to put it behind you and move on together; ie really sort out why you broke up in the first place, or just move on separately and put it all down to experience.